"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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POLL: Would you wear this t-shirt

Island

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I'm thinking of a T-Shirt that prominently says "NO RESPONSIBILITIES WITHOUT RIGHTS".

Would you wear this?

Would you, an established PUA or DJ, be willing to wear this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Island

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I didn't ask what's a cool shirt to wear.

I asked if you'd be willing to wear a shirt that said "NO RESPONSIBILITIES WITHOUT RIGHTS".
 

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Originally posted by Island
Would you, an established PUA or DJ, be willing to wear this?
Who cares what you wear? If you're thinking you'll be more "DJ" by wearing it, think again. Clothes (while important), are unimportant if you follow my meaning. Wear whatever you want, it's your style you're promoting, not somebody elses.

That being said, no, I wouldn't wear a shirt that says that. May as well have one on that proclaims "I'm with stupid".
 

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I've always wondered what would happen if I wore a t-shirt that says "I'M ROCK HARD FOR JESUS" to a Christian rock concert.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PRMoon

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Maybe you should concider wearing an Atari shirt...that way people will think you're a complete dork, instead of a partial one.
 

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nm, read question wrong.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this one is much better.....

I saw this nice ass t-shirt, but unfortunately they only had XL which didnt fit me.

"The best friends are Friends with benefits"

Exactly as it said, with a stick figure of guy and girl standing together.
 

Island

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It isn't a DJ shirt per se. It's more of a political one.

You must have seen the "My body my choice" shirts and all that. I think we may need an answering cry.

I just want to know your opinions on the matter.
 

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Are you guys familiar with the men's rights movements in your countries?

If you don't like the idea of custody abuse, if you don't like the idea of unequal divorce laws, if you don't like the idea of unequal parenthood and right to life rights, and especially if you don't like the fact that feminist theory dominates gender based discussions in media and academia, then perhaps this T-Shirt is for you.

I will accept No responsibilities without being accorded rights .

No responsibilities without rights

A catchy slogan that you should use. It is time that individual men represented their ideas on gender on an equal footing as feminists.

The context of the blurb would be up to the individual man to decide, of course.

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I hope that explains a little bit. Certainly do give me feedback. Oh ya, I'm not selling T-Shirts or anything. Just trying to start a small wave.
 

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I prefer those walmart 10buck shirts, plain and simple.

No I would not.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'll wear that shirt when there's a female president.
 
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