"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Poll : Which one is the best
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I have never looked at any of them and yet I have no problems.
I think the collective minds and opinions of "The few" on sosuave is the best advice and tips.
Sarge On!
And the best thing I've read for improving ones life is "The Way of the Superior Man." Oh, that, and "The Greatest Salesman in the World."
Don't let the title of the second one fool you- its BASED on sales, but its about SOOO much more.
Have fun!
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In that order....
All the other stuff is just helpful hints and tips, when the chips are down you will have to be true to yourself, trying to do, say or be what you are truly NOT will only result in a huge flop.
Be your own LEAD DOG, the view is better.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
But of everything I've read and know about, I'd point posters to the tips section on this board and look for posters who match your style and outcomes and who you can relate to. I have my favourites, but they might not suit everyone else.