"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Poll : Which one is the best
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tomatoes
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I have never looked at any of them and yet I have no problems.
I think the collective minds and opinions of "The few" on sosuave is the best advice and tips.
Sarge On!
And the best thing I've read for improving ones life is "The Way of the Superior Man." Oh, that, and "The Greatest Salesman in the World."
Don't let the title of the second one fool you- its BASED on sales, but its about SOOO much more.
Have fun!
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In that order....
All the other stuff is just helpful hints and tips, when the chips are down you will have to be true to yourself, trying to do, say or be what you are truly NOT will only result in a huge flop.
Be your own LEAD DOG, the view is better.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
But of everything I've read and know about, I'd point posters to the tips section on this board and look for posters who match your style and outcomes and who you can relate to. I have my favourites, but they might not suit everyone else.