"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Poll on how you use the site

When you first access the site, do you:

  • I read the site using the "New Posts" button or drop down menu?

    Votes: 6 31.6%
  • I read the site content by Sub-Forum Name? e.g. Don Juan, Anything Else, etc?

    Votes: 13 68.4%

  • Total voters
    19

Pierce Manhammer

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I'm interested in learning more about how users access the content on the site.

When I come to the site, I do it in this order:
1. Check notifications - the little bell in the top nav bar.
2. Then I click the New Posts or Whats New button or drop-down menu - which shows me new content across the site.

I do not read the site by sub-forum, so I'm curious how do you do it? If the poll doesn't cover how you access fresh content, please vote for the closest option and post a message here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SW15

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I check my notifications on the posts where I have already participated.

Then, I navigate through the subforums like Don Juan, Mature Man, etc.

I will also review my private messages too.
 

Pierce Manhammer

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Thanks for the replies this far. It’s interesting to see how people use interfaces. One thing that I’ve noted is that I often the way I use technology is very different than most users…

Hopefully more people will reply.
 

The Duke

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I check my notifications on the posts where I have already participated.

Then, I navigate through the subforums like Don Juan, Mature Man, etc.

I will also review my private messages too.
Same way
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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