"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nikos75

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My first experience was with a pro-fessional on the day of my 12th (twelveth) birthday. It was my uncle that had arranged it as a birthday present, and to make sure I would follow the right path.
I did not know what to do, so the girl did it all for me.
A detail: The room did not have any windows and the door was locked, so that I could not escape...

My first experience with a non-professional happened when I was 15.
She was the 26-year-old cousin of a close friend. She had invited me and her cousin to see a movie in her appartment. And she made a move during the film because I was shy (= not confident yet) and I wouldn't dare to act upon my impulse. We ended up making out on the couch while her cousin was playing a PC game in her room. I found out later that she had just broken up with her BF and I wished I was a lot older. I'll never forget her.

What about you ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SinJester

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:0 Is that legal?
 

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SinJester said:
:0 Is that legal?
In Greece it is. Prostitutes are available to everybody that can get down to the basics.

What is illegal is sex between a minor and an adult (over 18 yo). However, for criminal prosecution the minor or his/her parents has to complain formally about it and ask the Prosecutor to press charges.

I could always keep secrets... especially after having had a good time
 

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gotta love greek relatives?
did you drink some raki together after that
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nikos75

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Excuse me?

mutambo said:
gotta love greek relatives?
did you drink some raki together after that
She was the cousin of a friend.
Not my relative.

As long as it considers the drinking, I remember having drunk some martinis. Drinking is allowed for minors in Greece. But not in bars.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I was 18 she was 17. we skipped school and fvcked in the back of my car...
 

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Whoah Greece sounds awesome.

I'm still waiting to lose mine.

I'm 16.

But I don't live in Greece :p
 
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