"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Poll - How old were you when you lost your V-card?

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My first experience was with a pro-fessional on the day of my 12th (twelveth) birthday. It was my uncle that had arranged it as a birthday present, and to make sure I would follow the right path.
I did not know what to do, so the girl did it all for me.
A detail: The room did not have any windows and the door was locked, so that I could not escape...

My first experience with a non-professional happened when I was 15.
She was the 26-year-old cousin of a close friend. She had invited me and her cousin to see a movie in her appartment. And she made a move during the film because I was shy (= not confident yet) and I wouldn't dare to act upon my impulse. We ended up making out on the couch while her cousin was playing a PC game in her room. I found out later that she had just broken up with her BF and I wished I was a lot older. I'll never forget her.

What about you ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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:0 Is that legal?
 
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SinJester said:
:0 Is that legal?
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In Greece it is. Prostitutes are available to everybody that can get down to the basics.

What is illegal is sex between a minor and an adult (over 18 yo). However, for criminal prosecution the minor or his/her parents has to complain formally about it and ask the Prosecutor to press charges.

I could always keep secrets... especially after having had a good time
 
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gotta love greek relatives?
did you drink some raki together after that
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Excuse me?

mutambo said:
gotta love greek relatives?
did you drink some raki together after that
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She was the cousin of a friend.
Not my relative.

As long as it considers the drinking, I remember having drunk some martinis. Drinking is allowed for minors in Greece. But not in bars.
 
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I was 18 she was 17. we skipped school and fvcked in the back of my car...
 
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Whoah Greece sounds awesome.

I'm still waiting to lose mine.

I'm 16.

But I don't live in Greece :p
 
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