"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Political stuff....

idiot_boyfriend

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I wouldn't want people getting pissed off at others, but would discussing the situation in Iraq be that political? I mean, there's a freakin' war going on over there.

I would like to have an opportunity to talk about it (without having the thread closed)....even if it means creating another board.

There are plenty of smart posters in SoSuave.com. I would love to hear their opinions on events.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
I wouldn't want people getting pissed off at others, but would discussing the situation in Iraq be that political? I mean, there's a freakin' war going on over there.

I would like to have an opportunity to talk about it (without having the thread closed)....even if it means creating another board.

There are plenty of smart posters in SoSuave.com. I would love to hear their opinions on events.
Because the "No blood for Oil" crowd would jump in within seconds and turn it political.

Do you think that the war in Iraq can be discussed without politicising it?
 

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Yes, I believe we can discuss the war on Iraq without turning it political. If we only stick to military issues - such as the effectiveness and efficiency of both US and rebel military tactics, value of certain strategic decisions and operations.

For the "No blood for oil" crowd, we can look at how much blood is worth what amount of oil, also using a cost analysis examination method. For example, I argue each gallon of oil is worth 0.2461 pints of blood using the [33x < -24/12 (23xy - 12x)], and other people must arrange their calculations to work out if that whether that approach is valid.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are plenty of forums to discuss politics and war related issues at. This is not one of them.


End of question.
 

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Aiiight.

Seeing as how this post was sitting here for about a month and all.... Thanks for the responses.
 
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