"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Poking girls on facebook

Tear Gas

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i poked some random girls from my college on a boring night and the next morning quite a few of them poked back

does this mean that there is some initial interest? i know it doest mean that theyre crazy about me but they might be interested and i gotta do some more work to get them in? :up: where do you guys go from here?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MrMike

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It means nothing. 90% of the time when X pokes Y on facebook, Y pokes X back. Its dumb. Don't look into it.

I'm gonna bet it means nothing that they poked you back.
 

Obsidian

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it means they don't hate you, but that's about it
 

Effington

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Yeah, it pretty much just means they don't hate you. Don't look too far into this one.
 

mintxx

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Facebook is an attention and status anxiety outlet for women, who comprise 60-70% of its users. All they want is a long friend list and full 'wall'. Snap out of it.:cool::rolleyes:
-edit: see 'attention hor'
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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