"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poking girls on facebook

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Tear Gas

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i poked some random girls from my college on a boring night and the next morning quite a few of them poked back

does this mean that there is some initial interest? i know it doest mean that theyre crazy about me but they might be interested and i gotta do some more work to get them in? :up: where do you guys go from here?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It means nothing. 90% of the time when X pokes Y on facebook, Y pokes X back. Its dumb. Don't look into it.

I'm gonna bet it means nothing that they poked you back.
 
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it means they don't hate you, but that's about it
 
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Effington

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Yeah, it pretty much just means they don't hate you. Don't look too far into this one.
 
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Facebook is an attention and status anxiety outlet for women, who comprise 60-70% of its users. All they want is a long friend list and full 'wall'. Snap out of it.:cool::rolleyes:
-edit: see 'attention hor'
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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