"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Poking girls on facebook

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Tear Gas

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i poked some random girls from my college on a boring night and the next morning quite a few of them poked back

does this mean that there is some initial interest? i know it doest mean that theyre crazy about me but they might be interested and i gotta do some more work to get them in? :up: where do you guys go from here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It means nothing. 90% of the time when X pokes Y on facebook, Y pokes X back. Its dumb. Don't look into it.

I'm gonna bet it means nothing that they poked you back.
 
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it means they don't hate you, but that's about it
 
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Effington

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Yeah, it pretty much just means they don't hate you. Don't look too far into this one.
 
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Facebook is an attention and status anxiety outlet for women, who comprise 60-70% of its users. All they want is a long friend list and full 'wall'. Snap out of it.:cool::rolleyes:
-edit: see 'attention hor'
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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