“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PeasantPlayer

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Talked up some girl on POF, had a good conversation. Ended up giving her my number, but telling her I would be busy and couldn't talk tonight, which was true. She texts me giving me her number and what not. I say cool, I will hit you up tommorow. This morning wake up send her a text. No response. Thing is....I don't really care, but want some advice on how I should of and how I should go about this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

GS750

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One more attempt in a few days, either by text or phone call. No reply? Drop it. If you do talk to her don't mention the first failed attempt.
 

Yewki

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Give her more time, she might be playing a game... or just be busy. Either way I would not text her again until she responds (yes that might mean never texting her again).

But what did you text her? Hopefully not something boring, generic, or uninteresting (i.e. "hey, good morning")
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
Ended up giving her my number
This is your problem.

You ended up giving her your number. When you give your number to a girl, you become just an ordinary guy to her. She will treat you as an ordinary guy as well. That's why she isn't putting in much of an effort in getting back to you.

Always get the girl's number first, don't just give yours away. When you give your number away, you have no idea if the girl is really interested. You throw the ball in her court and it's up to her if she will text.

Girls that have some interest will always give you their number. Make sure that you always get their number first. Just don't randomly give yours away hoping she'll text you the next day. She's texting the guys that she has high interest first, before she gets to you.

When you're using online dating you have a chance to get a bunch of numbers. So, don't be concerned about just one flake.

And that's Rascal's number tip of the day
 

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rascal99v said:
This is your problem.

You ended up giving her your number. When you give your number to a girl, you become just an ordinary guy to her. She will treat you as an ordinary guy as well. That's why she isn't putting in much of an effort in getting back to you.

Always get the girl's number first, don't just give yours away. When you give your number away, you have no idea if the girl is really interested. You throw the ball in her court and it's up to her if she will text.

Girls that have some interest will always give you their number. Make sure that you always get their number first. Just don't randomly give yours away hoping she'll text you the next day. She's texting the guys that she has high interest first, before she gets to you.

And that's Rascal's number tip of the day
Good tip.
I remember I found this site by googling whether giving my number out was a good idea (I used to give mine out).
 

PeasantPlayer

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I was in a rush was getting picked up for poker which I enjoy more then most women:) I did text her good morning lmao. Its funny because I know what I do wrong and keep doing it. Oh well on to the nexttttttt
 

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Also keep in mind that there are a lot of flakes in internet dating. I can not tell you the number of times that has happened to me....so I normally just ignore and move on to the next. I no longer waste my time on women who do not respond...I do not send them a second text. Good luck.. Abe
 

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Give her time but also keep in mind it's all very flaky
 
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