"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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POF: Women respond, but it goes nowhere

Trenton

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If I message 20 girls, 6 or 7 will respond. If they wanted nothing to do with me, they wouldn't reply to begin with. I've tried long drawn out conversations, quick ones, intellectual ones, acting normal, weird, etc. Most of my conversations go well, then it tapers off into radio silence.

I've had the most luck coming home from the bars at like 2 a.m. and logging on. That's when the responses fly in left and right. But they don't meet up. I even told one of them: "Listen, I don't want to talk all night, I want to plug one of your holes!" I know that might sound harsh, but c'mon. Why are these women on that late on a weekend unless they're looking to hook up?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Building_and_Loan

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I even told one of them: "Listen, I don't want to talk all night, I want to plug one of your holes!" I know that might sound harsh, but c'mon. Why are these women on that late on a weekend unless they're looking to hook up?
I don't know man, I have no idea why that line failed. Seems golden.
 
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