"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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POF: Women respond, but it goes nowhere

Trenton

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If I message 20 girls, 6 or 7 will respond. If they wanted nothing to do with me, they wouldn't reply to begin with. I've tried long drawn out conversations, quick ones, intellectual ones, acting normal, weird, etc. Most of my conversations go well, then it tapers off into radio silence.

I've had the most luck coming home from the bars at like 2 a.m. and logging on. That's when the responses fly in left and right. But they don't meet up. I even told one of them: "Listen, I don't want to talk all night, I want to plug one of your holes!" I know that might sound harsh, but c'mon. Why are these women on that late on a weekend unless they're looking to hook up?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Building_and_Loan

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I even told one of them: "Listen, I don't want to talk all night, I want to plug one of your holes!" I know that might sound harsh, but c'mon. Why are these women on that late on a weekend unless they're looking to hook up?
I don't know man, I have no idea why that line failed. Seems golden.
 
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