"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well we all know that experiment that has been overdone on sosuave and every other website on Earth where a guy creates a fake account with a hot chick's pictures and proceeds to see how many guys will hit on the profile.

But how about an ugly girl's picture? Well the guys over at the misc at bodybuilding.com did such an experiment using this picture:

http://i.imgur.com/EnrD0.png

And got offers and propositions for sex in the DOUBLE DIGITS. Including guys who are not fat at all, guys of all races, and guys trying to send nudes to "her". One guy offered to let her anally fvck him.

I'm going to post the picture again in case you forgot what she looked like.

http://i.imgur.com/EnrD0.png
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http://i.imgur.com/EnrD0.png

Let this be a lesson to all of guys. Have standards both in your women and yourselves. Otherwise you will end up like the men in that thread trying to get even a 1/10 to fvck you.

HEre is the full thread if you want to read it http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=144422591&highlight=POF
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This just goes to show why you should never feel sorry for any woman in the dating game. Even the fattest ugliest women will have more options than an above average looking guy.I get hit on by fat chicks a lot on dating sites and every now and then offline and have no remorse in rejecting them.
 
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Dust 2 Dust said:
This just goes to show why you should never feel sorry for any woman in the dating game. Even the fattest ugliest women will have more options than an above average looking guy.I get hit on by fat chicks a lot on dating sites and every now and then offline and have no remorse in rejecting them.
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Agree. I won't hesitate to directly reject a woman if its blatantly obvious she's shooting out of her league. Quit "sparing her feelings" because trust me, if she was any inkling attractive, she would have no qualms blowing you off for the dumbest reason.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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it's ridiculous. I know a bunch of girls who are legitimately attractive and all they ever do is complain about how hard it is to meet guys. Durr, it's hard to find a good book if you can't read.
 
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Leporello said:
it's ridiculous. I know a bunch of girls who are legitimately attractive and all they ever do is complain about how hard it is to meet guys. Durr, it's hard to find a good book if you can't read.
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When they say "guys", they mean "guys with multiple options, who are desired by many women, but only want to be with me". Basically, a badboy who they want to tame, but they don't really want to tame him because if he becomes tamed, they he becomes boring.

I'm half kidding. But only half.
 
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sstype said:
Agree. I won't hesitate to directly reject a woman if its blatantly obvious she's shooting out of her league. Quit "sparing her feelings" because trust me, if she was any inkling attractive, she would have no qualms blowing you off for the dumbest reason.
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Dust 2 Dust said:
This just goes to show why you should never feel sorry for any woman in the dating game. Even the fattest ugliest women will have more options than an above average looking guy.I get hit on by fat chicks a lot on dating sites and every now and then offline and have no remorse in rejecting them.
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I love both of these responses and they should always be remembered when it comes to online dating!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When they say "guys", they mean "guys with multiple options, who are desired by many women, but only want to be with me". Basically, a badboy who they want to tame, but they don't really want to tame him because if he becomes tamed, they he becomes boring.

I'm half kidding. But only half.
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A bunch of them even use online dating and I ask them 'Do you get a lot of messages?' and they say 'Oh no, maybe one a week..."

Yeah right. I wasn't born this morning. I wonder why they feel the need to lie.
 
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how about the poor shmuck that wired $170 into some girls bank account for gas money and cigs???!!! wtf kind of cigarettes is SHE smoking? better yet wtf does she drive that costs over $100 to fill up? a damn school bus??? if she had given me her bank account number i would have cleaned out her account.:crackup:
 
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