"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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POF Whale Edition

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Well we all know that experiment that has been overdone on sosuave and every other website on Earth where a guy creates a fake account with a hot chick's pictures and proceeds to see how many guys will hit on the profile.

But how about an ugly girl's picture? Well the guys over at the misc at bodybuilding.com did such an experiment using this picture:

http://i.imgur.com/EnrD0.png

And got offers and propositions for sex in the DOUBLE DIGITS. Including guys who are not fat at all, guys of all races, and guys trying to send nudes to "her". One guy offered to let her anally fvck him.

I'm going to post the picture again in case you forgot what she looked like.

http://i.imgur.com/EnrD0.png
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http://i.imgur.com/EnrD0.png
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Let this be a lesson to all of guys. Have standards both in your women and yourselves. Otherwise you will end up like the men in that thread trying to get even a 1/10 to fvck you.

HEre is the full thread if you want to read it http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=144422591&highlight=POF
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This just goes to show why you should never feel sorry for any woman in the dating game. Even the fattest ugliest women will have more options than an above average looking guy.I get hit on by fat chicks a lot on dating sites and every now and then offline and have no remorse in rejecting them.
 
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Dust 2 Dust said:
This just goes to show why you should never feel sorry for any woman in the dating game. Even the fattest ugliest women will have more options than an above average looking guy.I get hit on by fat chicks a lot on dating sites and every now and then offline and have no remorse in rejecting them.
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Agree. I won't hesitate to directly reject a woman if its blatantly obvious she's shooting out of her league. Quit "sparing her feelings" because trust me, if she was any inkling attractive, she would have no qualms blowing you off for the dumbest reason.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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it's ridiculous. I know a bunch of girls who are legitimately attractive and all they ever do is complain about how hard it is to meet guys. Durr, it's hard to find a good book if you can't read.
 
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Leporello said:
it's ridiculous. I know a bunch of girls who are legitimately attractive and all they ever do is complain about how hard it is to meet guys. Durr, it's hard to find a good book if you can't read.
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When they say "guys", they mean "guys with multiple options, who are desired by many women, but only want to be with me". Basically, a badboy who they want to tame, but they don't really want to tame him because if he becomes tamed, they he becomes boring.

I'm half kidding. But only half.
 
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sstype said:
Agree. I won't hesitate to directly reject a woman if its blatantly obvious she's shooting out of her league. Quit "sparing her feelings" because trust me, if she was any inkling attractive, she would have no qualms blowing you off for the dumbest reason.
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Dust 2 Dust said:
This just goes to show why you should never feel sorry for any woman in the dating game. Even the fattest ugliest women will have more options than an above average looking guy.I get hit on by fat chicks a lot on dating sites and every now and then offline and have no remorse in rejecting them.
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I love both of these responses and they should always be remembered when it comes to online dating!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Iceberg said:
When they say "guys", they mean "guys with multiple options, who are desired by many women, but only want to be with me". Basically, a badboy who they want to tame, but they don't really want to tame him because if he becomes tamed, they he becomes boring.

I'm half kidding. But only half.
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A bunch of them even use online dating and I ask them 'Do you get a lot of messages?' and they say 'Oh no, maybe one a week..."

Yeah right. I wasn't born this morning. I wonder why they feel the need to lie.
 
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how about the poor shmuck that wired $170 into some girls bank account for gas money and cigs???!!! wtf kind of cigarettes is SHE smoking? better yet wtf does she drive that costs over $100 to fill up? a damn school bus??? if she had given me her bank account number i would have cleaned out her account.:crackup:
 
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