Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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POF really is it this easy?

EvenYouBrutus?

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I got curious about this site as my best freind is currently banging a lot of ugs on there and going on about how good it is. So I thought id check it out and made up a profile.

Got mine on stealth mode. But occasionaly take it off for a few hours and just too get a few messages and meet me's. Some of these girls are hot. Im just wondering how long it takes to meet these girls in real life im new to this internet dating ****.

The messages are usualy trash like girls sending me "you seem lovely, how are you.?"

Im getting bored of replying to pointless fluff. How much effort do in need to put in to replying to hot girl who inboxed me to banging hot girl who inboxed me?

Like my mate how has a lot of success on here puts in a lot of work he's messaging girls 24/7 and I really can't be bothered with this. Any set strategys that can speed up the proccess, As my time is pretty pecious fixing my ****ed up head and beoming who i want to be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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J Roc

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why waste your time with fugly fat women on that site? get out in the field and get some quality women!
 

EvenYouBrutus?

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yeah your right. But It just seems all to convenient tho having an app up on my phone, logging in on my lunch break answering a few emails and meeting women that way. Lazy as hell i know but its tempting...

Whats the average emails you have to send too meet a girl?
 

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yes, there are many whales & single mothers but there's a few kid-less gems too.

I initiate a meet up by the 3rd or 4th msg. If they won't meet up by that point I forget about em.
You should escalate to a meet up in a smooth casual way.

If you play your cards right you'll be having sex with them by the 5th date at the very latest.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spinaroonie

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OP - a lot of guys here struggle to get responses to their messages.

Links us your profile.
 

J Roc

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i wouldnt dare waste 5 dates on a POF girl. first night or NEXT
 

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Bro, I should write a thank you letter to POF. If I was to put on a scale of 1-10, how easy POF is for lays. Ide score it a 100..

Ive gotten tons and tons of lays off of POF.

I say go for it and see what you can do.
 

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I said "VERY LATEST" 5 dates....but yeah most of them I've done within 2.

Me too Crissco. Never closed on an okc chika, but always on POF chikas/
 

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Im not linking to my profile. But I have one bad picture of me n a shirt im average looking. One amazing photo of a beach i took and one of my guitar and cat.

In the profile I go on about how creativaty is attractive. What im looking for in a girl that im funny silly etc so im only intrested in girls like that. Its pretty honest how I wrote it and sort of desribe myself by desrining what the type of girl im looking for.

If you at it sort of sums me quite acurately up in a very quickly but i don't describe myself if you get what i mean. Honestly I dont message girls I just reply to the random **** i get sent into my inbox with no goal or intentions. They usually lap it up for some reason
mabye because I don't really care what I say and don't even try to compliment or to impess like id guess most guys do.


Iv got some pretty ****ed up intamacy issues so this might give me an easy access tool to get over it. Not planned on meeting anyone off here yet already blew off a few of them off

My other mates the same he gets loads of hot girls message him but eventually flakes on 99% of them. He's got a well written profile to. Unlike my internet dogger mate who puts in tons of effort and bangs ugs on the first date 99.9% of the time. But id rather go for the hotties than quantity.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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