"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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POF really is it this easy?

EvenYouBrutus?

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I got curious about this site as my best freind is currently banging a lot of ugs on there and going on about how good it is. So I thought id check it out and made up a profile.

Got mine on stealth mode. But occasionaly take it off for a few hours and just too get a few messages and meet me's. Some of these girls are hot. Im just wondering how long it takes to meet these girls in real life im new to this internet dating ****.

The messages are usualy trash like girls sending me "you seem lovely, how are you.?"

Im getting bored of replying to pointless fluff. How much effort do in need to put in to replying to hot girl who inboxed me to banging hot girl who inboxed me?

Like my mate how has a lot of success on here puts in a lot of work he's messaging girls 24/7 and I really can't be bothered with this. Any set strategys that can speed up the proccess, As my time is pretty pecious fixing my ****ed up head and beoming who i want to be.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why waste your time with fugly fat women on that site? get out in the field and get some quality women!
 

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yeah your right. But It just seems all to convenient tho having an app up on my phone, logging in on my lunch break answering a few emails and meeting women that way. Lazy as hell i know but its tempting...

Whats the average emails you have to send too meet a girl?
 

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yes, there are many whales & single mothers but there's a few kid-less gems too.

I initiate a meet up by the 3rd or 4th msg. If they won't meet up by that point I forget about em.
You should escalate to a meet up in a smooth casual way.

If you play your cards right you'll be having sex with them by the 5th date at the very latest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spinaroonie

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OP - a lot of guys here struggle to get responses to their messages.

Links us your profile.
 

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i wouldnt dare waste 5 dates on a POF girl. first night or NEXT
 

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Bro, I should write a thank you letter to POF. If I was to put on a scale of 1-10, how easy POF is for lays. Ide score it a 100..

Ive gotten tons and tons of lays off of POF.

I say go for it and see what you can do.
 

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I said "VERY LATEST" 5 dates....but yeah most of them I've done within 2.

Me too Crissco. Never closed on an okc chika, but always on POF chikas/
 

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Im not linking to my profile. But I have one bad picture of me n a shirt im average looking. One amazing photo of a beach i took and one of my guitar and cat.

In the profile I go on about how creativaty is attractive. What im looking for in a girl that im funny silly etc so im only intrested in girls like that. Its pretty honest how I wrote it and sort of desribe myself by desrining what the type of girl im looking for.

If you at it sort of sums me quite acurately up in a very quickly but i don't describe myself if you get what i mean. Honestly I dont message girls I just reply to the random **** i get sent into my inbox with no goal or intentions. They usually lap it up for some reason
mabye because I don't really care what I say and don't even try to compliment or to impess like id guess most guys do.


Iv got some pretty ****ed up intamacy issues so this might give me an easy access tool to get over it. Not planned on meeting anyone off here yet already blew off a few of them off

My other mates the same he gets loads of hot girls message him but eventually flakes on 99% of them. He's got a well written profile to. Unlike my internet dogger mate who puts in tons of effort and bangs ugs on the first date 99.9% of the time. But id rather go for the hotties than quantity.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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