"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pof - Online Dating Is Bottom Of The Barrel?

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Looks are all that matter online, luckily I'm kinda handsome, I send out messages only in ones I am interested in...and lately I get a response like 6 out of 10 times where I used to just get ignored when I was fat. I think the beard helps too.

But honestly, both pof and okcupid are full of boring, flaky, average women with low self-confidence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HalfAddict said:
But honestly, both pof and okcupid are full of boring, flaky, average women with low self-confidence.
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Completely true. I consider it virtual cvm dumpster diving. If you plan on meeting them for a one nighter wear a Hazmat suit. It's good for fvcking around on there when bored.
 
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Put your wealth as 250k+ and occupation as an investment banker and see what happens, I'm curious to see if it's just looks or if perceived money plays a huge role as well.
 
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