"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HalfAddict

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Looks are all that matter online, luckily I'm kinda handsome, I send out messages only in ones I am interested in...and lately I get a response like 6 out of 10 times where I used to just get ignored when I was fat. I think the beard helps too.

But honestly, both pof and okcupid are full of boring, flaky, average women with low self-confidence.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HalfAddict said:
But honestly, both pof and okcupid are full of boring, flaky, average women with low self-confidence.

Completely true. I consider it virtual cvm dumpster diving. If you plan on meeting them for a one nighter wear a Hazmat suit. It's good for fvcking around on there when bored.
 

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Put your wealth as 250k+ and occupation as an investment banker and see what happens, I'm curious to see if it's just looks or if perceived money plays a huge role as well.
 
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