"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iceberg said:
To be honest, I feel that POF is awful. OKCupid is the way to go.

When I was on POF, all these awful broads would write to me. Once I got to OKC, the prospects were better looking, better educated, and younger.

I think OKC with all its questions and sh*t, actually tries to put you into categories with your best matches. On POF, you just get thrown in with a lump of people...uneducated, multiple kids, etc, etc.

Of course this all depends on where you live, I guess.



Sh*t, you got the rest of your life to bang the 25+ crowd.

Scoop up that 18-22 demograpic while you're still young enough to be around them.

Or pass them over to me.
Ice, clear out your mailbox. Gotta touch base about something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude PM me your POF account and login. Give me a day and I'll have a bunch of good replies in your inbox.

If you are good looking and muscular it'll be easy.

I troll that site for kicks. Easy work. You'll be amazed at the dumb sh1t those chicks reply to.

take pity on us plebians mighty Ninj and scatter a few pof morsels among us that we may feed upon poon
 

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take pity on us plebians mighty Ninj and scatter a few pof morsels among us that we may feed upon poon

I've updated his profile already. His new pictures are waaay better. Soon my spamming fun will begin. It's up to the OP to share his profile on here. Chicks should get a kick out of it. wait till I start spamming..lol..

Dude has a lot of replies already. Don't know what he's talking about as far as 'success'. Most dudes get diddly squat.

I just have to watch with logging into his account and he has to save the profile and interests to an email as it could get deleted due to my ip in NY and his profile based out of Cali.
 

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I've updated his profile already. His new pictures are waaay better. Soon my spamming fun will begin. It's up to the OP to share his profile on here. Chicks should get a kick out of it. wait till I start spamming..lol..

Dude has a lot of replies already. Don't know what he's talking about as far as 'success'. Most dudes get diddly squat.

I just have to watch with logging into his account and he has to save the profile and interests to an email as it could get deleted due to my ip in NY and his profile based out of Cali.
I saw his before profile and now his after

Very good job! Much better profile! (OP: What he's done to your profile is give it personality! That's what i meant.)

Question though... Are you using his real pictures? Doesn't even look like the same guy (other than them both being asian). Looks like a much more lean person in the new pics.
 

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I've updated his profile already. His new pictures are waaay better. Soon my spamming fun will begin. It's up to the OP to share his profile on here. Chicks should get a kick out of it. wait till I start spamming..lol..

Dude has a lot of replies already. Don't know what he's talking about as far as 'success'. Most dudes get diddly squat.

I just have to watch with logging into his account and he has to save the profile and interests to an email as it could get deleted due to my ip in NY and his profile based out of Cali.
verowang1234
5/28/2012 10:32:09 AMJust one question.




****l
5/28/2012 10:36:29 AMk


verowang1234
5/28/2012 10:37:31 AMWhy plane are you catching? :)




verowang1234
5/28/2012 10:37:40 AM*What




****
5/28/2012 10:44:47 AMdelta airlines :) or i can fly u out here if u like la


verowang1234
5/28/2012 9:44:31 PMYou're one of the few that actually reads profiles. Congrads! :)




verowang1234
5/31/2012 9:35:51 AMYou're so cute.




***
5/31/2012 9:53:10 AMthx whats ur number?


***
5/31/2012 10:53:42 AMim Reggie


verowang1234
5/31/2012 11:51:13 AMI'm Veronica

ME: Whats ur number?

gimme damn
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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verowang1234
5/28/2012 10:32:09 AMJust one question.




MrChowInterntionlCriminal
5/28/2012 10:36:29 AMk


verowang1234
5/28/2012 10:37:31 AMWhy plane are you catching? :)




verowang1234
5/28/2012 10:37:40 AM*What




MrChowInterntionlCriminal
5/28/2012 10:44:47 AMdelta airlines :) or i can fly u out here if u like la


verowang1234
5/28/2012 9:44:31 PMYou're one of the few that actually reads profiles. Congrads! :)




verowang1234
5/31/2012 9:35:51 AMYou're so cute.




MrChowInterntionlCriminal
5/31/2012 9:53:10 AMthx whats ur number?


MrChowInterntionlCriminal
5/31/2012 10:53:42 AMim Reggie


verowang1234
5/31/2012 11:51:13 AMI'm Veronica

ME: Whats ur number?

gimme damn

She emailed you her number already check your inbox. Dude you are getting replies. What are you talking about? lmao. The profile is now much better. I added a few captions to your new pics. I'll email a few chicks later. If I spam especially from NY off an LA profile it may delete your profile. Copy and paste your about me and interests on an email just in case.

I'll bang out a few emails later tonight when I get home. After a few back and forth tell them to give you their number to meet up for an international crime spree. this sh!t will be a cakewalk. Too-Da-Loo for now B1tchezz!! LMAO!
 

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She emailed you her number already check your inbox. Dude you are getting replies. What are you talking about? lmao. The profile is now much better. I added a few captions to your new pics. I'll email a few chicks later. If I spam especially from NY off an LA profile it may delete your profile. Copy and paste your about me and interests on an email just in case.

I'll bang out a few emails later tonight when I get home. After a few back and forth tell them to give you their number to meet up for an international crime spree. this sh!t will be a cakewalk. Too-Da-Loo for now B1tchezz!! LMAO!

Thanks man, I will report back whether, successful or not.

So far 1 number.
 

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Thanks man, I will report back whether, successful or not.

So far 1 number.

Take numbers. Set up meets. Keep spamming. Don't rely on one, two or even three chicks. Get a harem and delete numbers of flakes or not interested. I'll spam chicks tonight. Hahahaha. This is gonna be GOOD.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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snowdog said:
Dating websites are for faggots.

Get your ass away from your computer and go to a bar already.
Correction: Gay dating websites are for faggots!

Most of the girls I fvck these days aren't old enough to go to a bar :D
 

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bukowski_merit said:
I saw his before profile and now his after

Very good job! Much better profile! (OP: What he's done to your profile is give it personality! That's what i meant.)

Question though... Are you using his real pictures? Doesn't even look like the same guy (other than them both being asian). Looks like a much more lean person in the new pics.

The OP added those new pictures. He needs to add one shirtless beach pic. It's 'acceptable' to show off the goods so long as you are cut up and look good shirtless while not standing in front of a mirror...Unless you are a Tattoo'd "God".


***O.P. you must've used up your daily email limit. I couldn't send any emails out yet. I changed your main profile pic and captioned all your photos. Find one shirtless beach or beach pic and add it when you get the chance. I'll try to email chicks later tonight.
 
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Ok. I'm curious to see the difference between the original profile and the new one that's getting chics. :rock: C'mon fellas.

I have no problem with offline game but could definitely use more chics to pick from.
 

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konmai said:
Ok. I'm curious to see the difference between the original profile and the new one that's getting chics. :rock: C'mon fellas.

I have no problem with offline game but could definitely use more chics to pick from.
The old profile had pictures of a pale skinned asian guy who looked like he worked out heavy and ate heavy (like a power lifter), but looked a little uncomfortable/too serious in his clothes...

The new one has a more toned looking darker skinned asian guy who looks like he could spin kick the face off of swagger...

If it's the same guy or not - I'm not sure....




The old profile said something like:

"I like BJJ, Boxing, Wrestling...

I'm looking for a sexy curvy woman..."

And that was about it... (srsly)




The new one:

A very good Naughty Ninja Profile Personality makeover!
 

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The old profile had pictures of a pale skinned asian guy who looked like he worked out heavy and ate heavy (like a power lifter), but looked a little uncomfortable/too serious in his clothes...

The new one has a more toned looking darker skinned asian guy who looks like he could spin kick the face off of swagger...

If it's the same guy or not - I'm not sure....




The old profile said something like:

"I like BJJ, Boxing, Wrestling...

I'm looking for a sexy curvy woman..."

And that was about it... (srsly)




The new one:

A very good Naughty Ninja Profile Personality makeover!
You have to project a fun, mysterious, subtly sexual vibe on there. Spam out to chicks, no matter even if they keep replying. Don't stop. Keep getting numbers. After a few exchanges. "Give me your number and let's get our Adventures in gear. (your name) =)" Chicks love the smiley crap with the telling them to give you their number. No time to play games. Regardless, keep spamming, getting numbers and then delete flakes etc. Numbers game. Period.

As for the O.P's pictures....I hope he added his real pictures. lmao. If not it's going to be a surprise for the chicks he winds up meeting..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bukowski_merit said:
The old profile had pictures of a pale skinned asian guy who looked like he worked out heavy and ate heavy (like a power lifter), but looked a little uncomfortable/too serious in his clothes...

The new one has a more toned looking darker skinned asian guy who looks like he could spin kick the face off of swagger...

If it's the same guy or not - I'm not sure....




The old profile said something like:

"I like BJJ, Boxing, Wrestling...

I'm looking for a sexy curvy woman..."

And that was about it... (srsly)




The new one:

A very good Naughty Ninja Profile Personality makeover!

I took down the original pics, and replaced with them with a pic of one of my training partners/friend who looks like me (sort of). I will put them original pics back on later, just taking them off for now.

I didn't tell him , but im sure he would be cool with it and he would go out with the girls lol.


So far so good I got 1 msg from a girl I didnt initiate:

BikeRunBackpack
5/31/2012 1:35:39 PMWhat facility is that in your pics?




*******
5/31/2012 1:37:44 PMextreme couture in vegas

no reply after that
 
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I took down the original pics, and replaced with them with a pic of one of my training partners/friend who looks like me (sort of). I will put them original pics back on later, just taking them off for now.

I didn't tell him , but im sure he would be cool with it and he would go out with the girls lol.


So far so good I got 1 msg from a girl I didnt initiate:

BikeRunBackpack
5/31/2012 1:35:39 PMWhat facility is that in your pics?




MrChowInterntionlCriminal
5/31/2012 1:37:44 PMextreme couture in vegas

no reply after that

So you're looking for 'success' for your friend using his pictures? Why bother if you don't plan on meeting them or they will be able to tell it's not you?
 

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So you're looking for 'success' for your friend using his pictures? Why bother if you don't plan on meeting them or they will be able to tell it's not you?
I don't think they will be able to tell :)
I would be very surprised if any of them agreed to meet.
so far that has not happened in a month

mheg2012
5/31/2012 2:04:42 PMIsn't all guys refuse to ask for directions.. even I'd they are really lost?? LOL




*****
5/31/2012 2:06:39 PMlol, true, i guess


mheg2012
5/31/2012 2:07:00 PMSo much pride..lol


any suggestions to reply, im stumped
 
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I don't think they will be able to tell :)
I would be very surprised if any of them agreed to meet.
so far that has not happened in a month

mheg2012
5/31/2012 2:04:42 PMIsn't all guys refuse to ask for directions.. even I'd they are really lost?? LOL




MrChowInterntionlCriminal
5/31/2012 2:06:39 PMlol, true, i guess


mheg2012
5/31/2012 2:07:00 PMSo much pride..lol


any suggestions to reply, im stumped

I'll let you serve as my GPS when we go out. I'm not on here much. Give me your number and I'll hit you up. (I'm pretty good at typing a cute girls number in my phone. Promise! (your name.) )

When telling them to give you their number always start with "I'm not on here much." Much more effective at making them hand over the number.

***Update to the O.P as I posted past my daily limit here: O.P for the love of sweet baby Jesus. DO NOT send out first messages. I read a few you've sent and they are HORROR shows.

I'll make up a template for you to send out first. After they reply then go into a normal conversation or quick question about their profile. (Don't keep trying to be funny or they'll think your a clown or fake.) After a few back and forth emails tell them "I'm not on here much. give me your phone number and I'll hit you up to meet up sometime. ("Your name" =) )

You must not talk to many chicks in real life..Srs.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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