"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gspshields2

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IF a girl ever asks why you are on online dating respond with
-I travel a lot and don't get a chance to meet many women in my city, thought i'd try out meeting women online.
-I don't like the club scene.
-"The same reason everyone else is; I secretly enjoy screening and judging people I've never met. You like it too, don't lie"
-"I thought it was pretty lame at first, but my friend met a really cool girl off this site so I thought I would give it a try."
-In 2 years online dating will be the ****. I am a pioneer.

the fact is girls are hit with a **** ton of messages a day ao you need to get the number after about 4 messages. So once you build a little comfort or maybe get her laughing hit her with 1 of these

"****, sorry im doing like 10 things at once here, why don't you give me your number and I'll call you in like...5 minutes?"

"I hate playing email tag, why don't you give me your number so we can talk like normal people."

Some women will **** test you on asking for the number. Things like "Ohh maybe im not ready to give you my number just yet" this actually happens a lot. Just cut through their bull**** with:

"Yeah you should totally play hard to get. Well im going to go grab something to eat now, when you're ready to give me your number let me know and we can talk like normal people...dork."


most of this stuff is quoted from pua cajun but it has all treated me very well last night alone was first night back on pof after reading pof thread no word of a lie I got 6 #'s in about 30 messages would have got more sometimes im just too lazy to continue talking to girls because they bore me.


This thread will help you get a # read it bra http://www.theattractionforums.com/...-profiles-messaging-closing-techniques-2.html


But the 1 sad truth about online dating is if your a below average looking dude youre not going to succeed. So if this is the case "Do steroids, lift heavy weights, get contacts, go tanning. And stop playing all those gay loving video games. You can’t get ***** in front of a TV playing games with your geeky friends. Go out to night clubs and bars, hit the beach. If you got money, floss" -Phil Baroni
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so pretty much you want, for you point of view, use someone pic worse and uglier then you, just to prove you suck?

dude plase drop the drama queen act and go do something, anything you like, stop looking for girls and work on your mental, or you are too stressfull with everything and it starting to get crazy, or you are trooling hard.
 

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gspshields2 said:
It doesn't look real, I need a guy who looks like he would never get girls, but looks like a real pic.

I'm going to prove this guy will get more numbers than me.
I'm forrealz, guys. This totally isn't trolling.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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