"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IF a girl ever asks why you are on online dating respond with
-I travel a lot and don't get a chance to meet many women in my city, thought i'd try out meeting women online.
-I don't like the club scene.
-"The same reason everyone else is; I secretly enjoy screening and judging people I've never met. You like it too, don't lie"
-"I thought it was pretty lame at first, but my friend met a really cool girl off this site so I thought I would give it a try."
-In 2 years online dating will be the ****. I am a pioneer.

the fact is girls are hit with a **** ton of messages a day ao you need to get the number after about 4 messages. So once you build a little comfort or maybe get her laughing hit her with 1 of these

"****, sorry im doing like 10 things at once here, why don't you give me your number and I'll call you in like...5 minutes?"

"I hate playing email tag, why don't you give me your number so we can talk like normal people."

Some women will **** test you on asking for the number. Things like "Ohh maybe im not ready to give you my number just yet" this actually happens a lot. Just cut through their bull**** with:

"Yeah you should totally play hard to get. Well im going to go grab something to eat now, when you're ready to give me your number let me know and we can talk like normal people...dork."


most of this stuff is quoted from pua cajun but it has all treated me very well last night alone was first night back on pof after reading pof thread no word of a lie I got 6 #'s in about 30 messages would have got more sometimes im just too lazy to continue talking to girls because they bore me.


This thread will help you get a # read it bra http://www.theattractionforums.com/...-profiles-messaging-closing-techniques-2.html


But the 1 sad truth about online dating is if your a below average looking dude youre not going to succeed. So if this is the case "Do steroids, lift heavy weights, get contacts, go tanning. And stop playing all those gay loving video games. You can’t get ***** in front of a TV playing games with your geeky friends. Go out to night clubs and bars, hit the beach. If you got money, floss" -Phil Baroni
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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so pretty much you want, for you point of view, use someone pic worse and uglier then you, just to prove you suck?

dude plase drop the drama queen act and go do something, anything you like, stop looking for girls and work on your mental, or you are too stressfull with everything and it starting to get crazy, or you are trooling hard.
 

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gspshields2 said:
It doesn't look real, I need a guy who looks like he would never get girls, but looks like a real pic.

I'm going to prove this guy will get more numbers than me.
I'm forrealz, guys. This totally isn't trolling.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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