“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was wondering if any else is on POF and gets those messsages about meetups and has ever been to one. I get those messages about several meetups at bars every week. I have never went to one. I imagine it's mostly a motley crew consisting of older regulars on pof, a lot of dudes and the token hot girl who thinks she's the top princess. On the other hand it would be away to meet several of the women on there and maybe get a pull.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I went to one, was working as part of the entertainment, so let me tell you what it is. The person doing the invite usually is marketing their business online. Basically they are either working for part of the door, since they bring in a lot of business from pof, meetup.com, etc. They might also be the "talent agent" in charge of the cover band, so they sell that to the bar owner as part of the package. They are affiliated with the local bars and promote the events.

With that being said, not all of the people inside the bar will be from PoF or Meet Up, since they are local bars that are pretty popular, but a good 80% will. Look at the people who RSVP, if the ratio is a good 50/50 of women and men, it usually turns out that way at the event, as a lot of women take their friend. Met several who were taken but took their single friend to get her to meet somone new. Avg age was late 30's to mid 40's, though.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
I went to one, was working as part of the entertainment, so let me tell you what it is. The person doing the invite usually is marketing their business online. Basically they are either working for part of the door, since they bring in a lot of business from pof, meetup.com, etc. They might also be the "talent agent" in charge of the cover band, so they sell that to the bar owner as part of the package. They are affiliated with the local bars and promote the events.

With that being said, not all of the people inside the bar will be from PoF or Meet Up, since they are local bars that are pretty popular, but a good 80% will. Look at the people who RSVP, if the ratio is a good 50/50 of women and men, it usually turns out that way at the event, as a lot of women take their friend. Met several who were taken but took their single friend to get her to meet somone new. Avg age was late 30's to mid 40's, though.
This great info. I never thought of it, but it makes total sense that it's marketing. What did you think of the typical crowd though. It seems kind of old like I thought. Was it like shooting fish in a barrel or was it more like nasty and cheesy and not really good for PU?
 

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I went to a meetup.com event and it sucked. On POF I get on there once a week, search for any new girls email them that I think they are cute and would like to meet up for drinks. I send like 5-6 emails a week and avg 1-2 dates from it. It can't hurt, you can always go to these events with a buddy and act like you just happen to be at the bar..
 

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ketostix said:
This great info. I never thought of it, but it makes total sense that it's marketing. What did you think of the typical crowd though. It seems kind of old like I thought. Was it like shooting fish in a barrel or was it more like nasty and cheesy and not really good for PU?
The crowd was older than you would find at a night club, and less people, so there was less to choose from.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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