Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheWolfMan

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So this morning out of the blue on POF this HB 8 messages me "hey there... love your look... hit me up some time with an email ********* at ya hoo . com maybe we could trade some more pic, chat and grab a coffee (my treat)"

I replied with "Hey thanks, you don't look too bad yourself! My e-mail is ********. I'm not much of a coffee drinker, but I'm sure we can figure something out..."

Any tips or advice as to how to go about this, I mean I feel like I should just apply texting game rules here. My text game is solid and I have my moments face to face but I am inexperienced as far as actually pulling girls from POF. Also she is from the next town over from mine and I've already mentioned grabbing some drinks but I haven't set anything concrete yet. She probably goes to the same bars that I do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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J Roc

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You got spammed bro. A female that is into you wants to exchange phone numbers not email addresses.
 

Zarky

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It's a scam. Anyone who immediately asks for your email address to "trade pics" is a scammer. The "buy you coffee" angle is a new one.

No 8 online is going to give her contact info immediately and offer to take you out. Wishful thinking.
 

pdx1138

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either that or when you do get a message from her about meeting up, she will tell you she is suddenly in a foreign country and stuck with no money so you can pay to bring her back.

I did yahoo dating for awhile and all of them were like that eventually.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Demonpenz

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I had one where the person texted me and it was obvious the person was not a woman. She/he misspelled every word and.kept calling me babe.
 

nismo-4

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Dream on bro.

It's porn site spam, spam, or intentional teasing. The only way you'll get an 8 to message you online is to be in the top 10% of men. Delete this sh*t.

Case closed. Exit stage left.
 
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