POF Date

[Cabal]

Going on one. Any advice? Anyone here done it?

 

[Jariel]

The only real difference between a net date and any other date is that they've never seen you in person before, but as long as you both look like your photos and haven't lied about any obvious detail (height, weight, age) it should be cool.

Understandably, girls are very cautious when meeting a guy from the net for the first time and need time to adjust and feel comfortable, so start off slowly, making polite and casual conversation and getting to know her. Meanwhile, look out for any positive signals, flirting or any hints she likes you, then gradually escalate the flirting. Just don't make any sudden moves or overbearing comments.

Personally, I usually wait until the end of the night to kiss her, but some women will make it easy for you to move in much sooner.

 

[Cabal]

Thanks. She actually approached me (yet no one I have ever messaged has ever responded) out of the blue, so I guess that's a good sign of interest. She also gave up her number pretty quick.

 

[GhengisT]

Thanks. She actually approached me (yet no one I have ever messaged has ever responded) out of the blue, so I guess that's a good sign of interest. She also gave up her number pretty quick.

So interesting tip if you want it. My best bro & I traded places. He was man***** while I was in 4yr AFC relationship. Now I'm the man ***** and he's the AFC.

He said you have to recognize that girls on POF are getting messages from guys all day. Analyze your target's about me description, REALLY ANALYZE IT! Your goal is to start a conversation using something of common ground (for her). if she responds, good work. It gets easier from there.

In the week that I've been trolling POF, I have had a hanful of trannies hit me up, so be careful. I do however have two/three prospects lined up that seems normal & would like to go get drinks at some point.

 

[Cabal]

Yeah a tranny hit me up too. Eeeww.

This one seems normal, has common interests, and is pretty damn hot. So probably gets messages all the time.

Must have done something(s) right, must make sure I recognize what they are.

 

[GhengisT]

As far as your date goes, i'd make the initial date to grab a drink, or lunch. Dinner is fine, but I'm usually tired of talking by that late in the day..

I would let her pick a place so its somewhere she knows, and will be comfortable. Its easy for a guy to be comfortable anywhere, women can be problematic if its a new place for them, not to mention a random guy from inet.

Good luck!

 

[Poonani Maker]

What I always do is to see who msg'd me via email notification, use a proxy to view her profile without logging in so that she can't see that I viewed her profile, then read to see Why she msg'd me first out of the blue. I wake up this morning to a couple of unprovoked msgs from POF. Just viewed one through a proxy, hot blue-eyed blonde though my age w/ not a thin body (all I like), not fat either just normal for 36. I believe that she msg'd me because one of my photos is titled "Before the haircut" (long hair in eyes and sticking out the back of my neck). She's a hairstylist. She ALSO says at the very end of her profile that she knows a ton of people and has one tattoo "that covers her entire back." Now, I've fvcked a mom (she's not a mom) about 2 years ago with a tattoo that covered her entire back (unbeknownst to me) and she had a floppy pvss from the kids, but she was a good fvck, but I couldn't get over the large tat, so I'll make like I didn't read this one's msg idk. If I get desperate, maybe I'll see about meeting up. I could easily fvck this one I think. She flatters herself in her profile, yet seems hard up.

 

[Robert28]

I disagree. Never do dinner on a first date with a pof girl you've never met in real life. (1) this can get expensive, and (2) a simple coffee date or get together for drinks on a patio or at a nice establishment should be more than enough to let your stellar personality win her over without the need for too much money being spent. Pof is like that, you may hit it off with dozens of girls during the initial conversation and getting-to-know-each-other phase but when the time comes to meet up, even if your pics are spitting images of you she will more often than not conclude that the "spark isn't there" or you may conclude that this girl isn't as hot/marginally passable as you had first thought.

If she's not into coffee dates or something simple for a first meeting, this may be a red flag that she will be much more work than necessary - and that's if you ever end up dating/f*cking her at all. Of all the hotties I banged off pof (8 total, 4 of which I dated), we all started off with a simple coffee date.

If you want to date the really hot ones on pof, go after the moms. They're much easier to bang than the single HB9's, and they don't require nearly as much of your time and attention thereby allowing you to try to f*ck other hotties. Just don't get too involved, lest you end up taking care of someone else's kids.

If you're like me and enjoy trying to bang the really hot HB9.5's on pof who are single, your work is really cut out for you. You'd have to be really good looking with a great profile and would have to do something that really makes you stick out (in a good way) from all the other seemingly great guys who msg these types of women. It's important to note that male pof profiles are like resumes.. the slightest wrong statement will make certain women lose total interest in you.

I agree with everything you said EXCEPT that the single mom's are the easiest to get. it's just the opposite when i was on there. the single moms have the WORST and most REDICULOUS standards of ALL the women on dating sites. for whatever reason they think they can command the cream of the crop guy and deserve nothing less "just because they have a kid, life has dealt them a bad hand, their ex is in jail now and they arent getting any child support. however you MUST have a six figure job, modeled at one point in your life, be ready to get married right away, blah blah blah". if you want less headaches then pass on by the single moms and stick with the gals that know how to use birth control or are smart enough and responsible to sleep with guys that know what theyre doing in the sack.