"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shw is a "therapist" lol. masters degree, 25 yo

Me: Hello

Her: Hey how's it going!?

Me: Do you find that, as a therapist, dating can be difficult for you? Also would you say it affects your social life? And if so, in what ways?

lol, shes a novice.

Her : haha umm I suppose it probably impacts dating in some ways..I definitely try to not let my therapist brain work when I'm not at work..I never just sit around analyzing the people I'm dating lol I think it impacts the person that I'm dating more than it does the relationship bc they're nervous that I'm always being a therapist instead of myself .. I don't think it affects me socially either..I mean a lot of my friends are therapists so I might be biased haha how do you think it affects relationships?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not really sure how you could respond to that.

When it comes to analyzing the people she dates, she most likely does. Most women overthink things, especially the men they associate themselves with. Given that her friends are also therapists, when/if you meet them they'll probably do the same.

With POF whenever a younger girl like that is on there, it's mostly for a reason. I've never heard of anyone lasting with a younger girl they met on the site.
 
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WTF? Damn near every woman I've ever known seems to style themselves as some type of psychiatrist (talk about our feelings bull$hit, how does that make you feel?).

Stop analyzing this woman and start getting into her pants.
 
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Be confident and don't worry what she thinks about you. The number one thing she will notice is your uncertainty. If she lets people know she is a therapist, most people are probably uneasy around her and prepared to be analyzed. Be refreshing by being yourself.
The best way to sell something is to truly believe that what you are selling is a great product. You don't even have to think or stress about it because you know you have the greatest product. Just know that you are amazing and she will follow your belief. Doubt yourself and she will follow your doubt. You have nothing to fear because by being honest and yourself she will fall for you!

Good luck!:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Her response reminds me of emails from my coworker. He has a business degree from the University of Miami and can't write a coherent paragraph.
 
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"We are different in that you say you aren't always a therapist well I'm a gynochologist and I'm always working so get them panties off and get your feet up on my shoulders so I can give you an exam!!":crackup:
 
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My question wasn't very serious. I dont care about her answer at all, I'm just trying to build her interest. But then again, my situation doesnt really allow me to have a meet at the moment. Seriously, if you guys knew you would understand.
 
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