POF chicK

[VikingKing]

Shw is a "therapist" lol. masters degree, 25 yo

Me: Hello

Her: Hey how's it going!?

Me: Do you find that, as a therapist, dating can be difficult for you? Also would you say it affects your social life? And if so, in what ways?

lol, shes a novice.

Her : haha umm I suppose it probably impacts dating in some ways..I definitely try to not let my therapist brain work when I'm not at work..I never just sit around analyzing the people I'm dating lol I think it impacts the person that I'm dating more than it does the relationship bc they're nervous that I'm always being a therapist instead of myself .. I don't think it affects me socially either..I mean a lot of my friends are therapists so I might be biased haha how do you think it affects relationships?

 

[VikingKing]

suggestions?

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Not really sure how you could respond to that.

When it comes to analyzing the people she dates, she most likely does. Most women overthink things, especially the men they associate themselves with. Given that her friends are also therapists, when/if you meet them they'll probably do the same.

With POF whenever a younger girl like that is on there, it's mostly for a reason. I've never heard of anyone lasting with a younger girl they met on the site.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

suggestions?

WTF? Damn near every woman I've ever known seems to style themselves as some type of psychiatrist (talk about our feelings bull$hit, how does that make you feel?).

Stop analyzing this woman and start getting into her pants.

 

[Special EDy]

Be confident and don't worry what she thinks about you. The number one thing she will notice is your uncertainty. If she lets people know she is a therapist, most people are probably uneasy around her and prepared to be analyzed. Be refreshing by being yourself.
The best way to sell something is to truly believe that what you are selling is a great product. You don't even have to think or stress about it because you know you have the greatest product. Just know that you are amazing and she will follow your belief. Doubt yourself and she will follow your doubt. You have nothing to fear because by being honest and yourself she will fall for you!

Good luck!

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Her response reminds me of emails from my coworker. He has a business degree from the University of Miami and can't write a coherent paragraph.

 

[logicallefty]

"We are different in that you say you aren't always a therapist well I'm a gynochologist and I'm always working so get them panties off and get your feet up on my shoulders so I can give you an exam!!":crackup:

 

[VikingKing]

My question wasn't very serious. I dont care about her answer at all, I'm just trying to build her interest. But then again, my situation doesnt really allow me to have a meet at the moment. Seriously, if you guys knew you would understand.