"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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poepl e think im a stoner

*RHCP*

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At school, ive earned the rep of being the stoner. I think its cause im tired almost all of the time and cause of the tone of my voice. So how can i have more energy? The only thing i can think of is my diet but i dont know how to improve it, mabey i just dont know enough what i should eat. I dont no how to improve my voice tone cause thats just the way my voice turned out when it broke but mabey the expression in my voice is what makes me seem stonerish. im also un motivated to do hard things, probably becuase i am tired, but i have improved in that i feel i little bit better about myself and i dont sit around feeling sorry for myself all the time( i just sit around trying to avoid things that are boring or hard to do). I dont have any close friends at school but i do hang out whith poeple and talk to them and stuff
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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arutha

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If you're tired, maybe try getting more sleep?

Start playing social sport or exercising a bit.. I've noticed I have a hell of a lot more energy when I play tennis casually a couple of times a week. Doesn't have to be competition level stuff, as long as you are putting your mind to it and trying.
 

jenzos

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use that to ur advantage and make some $$ mannnn
 

brad67

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Dude, who cares if people think you are a stoner? People know I smoke pot, you just have to show them that you dont give a ****.. if you give off that vibe that you do what you want and dont care who knows, but you still look good and are cool to hang with, you will get alot more attention.

Also, definitely start working out, it gives you alot more energy and you start to feel alot better about yourself
 

frisco

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yah i use to get that same rep tired and sleeping all the time in class and i use to have longer hiar so people thought i was a stoner. but the key i think is just having a good morrning i make sure that i have time to eat shower watch tv and on my way to school i play some AC DC by the time im there im in a good mood and not so tired
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Inquire

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hah, people think im a stoner too, cuz my eyes are kinda always squinted.

get some sleep!
 

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3 Simple Health rules to live by:

- No eating foods with High Fructose Corn Syrup in them.
- No eating foods with Partially Hydrogenated Oil in them.
- No soda.
 

Best friends? NAY

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Don't over eat. Eat a bowl of cereal (real cereal not kids ****), or some fruit, apples are great. For lunch have salad (no matter how much of that **** I eat I never get full or tired from eating it).
In general people eat alot more then they should, this could be a reason for your tiredness. You're body taking alot of energy to digest your food instead of using it to stay alert.
 
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