"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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poepl e think im a stoner

*RHCP*

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At school, ive earned the rep of being the stoner. I think its cause im tired almost all of the time and cause of the tone of my voice. So how can i have more energy? The only thing i can think of is my diet but i dont know how to improve it, mabey i just dont know enough what i should eat. I dont no how to improve my voice tone cause thats just the way my voice turned out when it broke but mabey the expression in my voice is what makes me seem stonerish. im also un motivated to do hard things, probably becuase i am tired, but i have improved in that i feel i little bit better about myself and i dont sit around feeling sorry for myself all the time( i just sit around trying to avoid things that are boring or hard to do). I dont have any close friends at school but i do hang out whith poeple and talk to them and stuff
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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arutha

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If you're tired, maybe try getting more sleep?

Start playing social sport or exercising a bit.. I've noticed I have a hell of a lot more energy when I play tennis casually a couple of times a week. Doesn't have to be competition level stuff, as long as you are putting your mind to it and trying.
 

jenzos

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use that to ur advantage and make some $$ mannnn
 

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Dude, who cares if people think you are a stoner? People know I smoke pot, you just have to show them that you dont give a ****.. if you give off that vibe that you do what you want and dont care who knows, but you still look good and are cool to hang with, you will get alot more attention.

Also, definitely start working out, it gives you alot more energy and you start to feel alot better about yourself
 

frisco

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yah i use to get that same rep tired and sleeping all the time in class and i use to have longer hiar so people thought i was a stoner. but the key i think is just having a good morrning i make sure that i have time to eat shower watch tv and on my way to school i play some AC DC by the time im there im in a good mood and not so tired
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Inquire

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hah, people think im a stoner too, cuz my eyes are kinda always squinted.

get some sleep!
 

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3 Simple Health rules to live by:

- No eating foods with High Fructose Corn Syrup in them.
- No eating foods with Partially Hydrogenated Oil in them.
- No soda.
 

Best friends? NAY

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Don't over eat. Eat a bowl of cereal (real cereal not kids ****), or some fruit, apples are great. For lunch have salad (no matter how much of that **** I eat I never get full or tired from eating it).
In general people eat alot more then they should, this could be a reason for your tiredness. You're body taking alot of energy to digest your food instead of using it to stay alert.
 
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