"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've gotten 2 spams in my pm box from AttractBlogger2011 about his blog, how can I block him from sending me msgs, can we ban him?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Mods and Admins are aware of this guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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he pm'ed me but my box was full
i emptied my box thinking AttractBlogger2008 was just some new dude or alias new name of someone here (hey it happens)
so i emptied my box, and pm'ed him telling him its cleaned out
after that i found out he had 4 brand new names with 0 posts on all of them
AttractBlogger2008, AttractBlogger2009, AttractBlogger2010 and AttractBlogger2001.
at the moment that i saw this, he was pm'ing out of all 4 of them at the same time.
sheesh
 

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let's go to his blog and spam it with sosuave links :)
 

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just did that now that i got his second spam message, here's what I wrote on his blog, feel free to add to what i wrote:



October 6, 2007
REAL @ 1:01 am:

HEY FAGGOT, YOU SPAMMED SOSUAVE.COM AND I WANNA REPLY TO TELL YOU THAT YOUR ****ING BLOG SUCKS FAGGOT ASS

good look with continuing to be a ****ing homo

you got NOTHING, you are a dumb peice of **** you little AFC
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i vote that the mods ip ban all 4 of his accounts.
it took him to be logged in for more than 24 hours under all 4 accounts to send these spam pms.
and yes, he just got mine with that 2011 one, whereas he previously tried with the 2008.

pms are for friends to say hi.
pms are where you go to ask for help when you need something.
pms are great ways to tell mods whats going on when needed.
pms are not for spam crap.

if we wanted to read blogs, we would do it on our own accounts.
 

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2008 has hit me twice.
 
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