"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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plz help m out...!!

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Hey, I am Abrar. I really love a girl. She's my best friend and we know each other for more than a year! We are damn close to each other. I don't know when I feel in love with her, so I was like “I’ll tell her”. I decided to tell her one day. I told her that I really like her. She gave a weird answer like “I would stop trusting you,” I heard about a past relationship and they don’t even talk to each other anymore. She was like “just remove this out of your mind.” I just can’t...I really love her...!!! Hmm is there a way out...?? I just can’t live like this cant sleep @ night also sob... sob... we meet everyday talk on phone for hours...!!!Hmm is there a way out that I can forget this all this or make her mine.

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As a note, this is your only warning. Learn to post in a manner that doesn't make my eyes bleed or your thread will be deleted.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Calm down, learn to speak and write English, forget about that girl, and come back. I'd love to help you out, but I can understand about a fifth of what you wrote, if that.

I'll just go with classic advice. GFTOW.
 
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Don't really have any advice, but like stated above you really should learn to type better in English if you want people to understand you. I can understand what you're saying, but it's difficult to read.
 
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Whats wrong with his typing it seems good to me.


Anyway the friend zone is a bad place to be. Its very tough to get out of. Especially with an relpy like that. You got oneitis man. Start talkin to other babes. Read the Bibles. Thats what I am doing now, I have been picking up on subtle things I do to turn girls into friends not prospects. The sooner you stop this the sooner you will have success.

EDIT- wow I am retarded I didnt see the edit by virtual mind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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phew hmm ok will write complete words from next time anyways thanks for ur replies...and fred..hw can ya help me out??
 
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Complete words are a start; complete sentences would be appreciated. ;)

Anyway, sorry to say, but you're pretty much screwed for the time being. I'd say you should either drop her completely (ie, not hang out/talk to her anymore) or use her as a pivot/wing to meet other women. That is, meet her hot friends and use game on them instead of on her. I wouldn't recommend that as you need to forget about her.

Just meet other girls; as you meet awesome, attractive ladies, you'll realize that the first girl isn't that special and that wonderful. It might take some time--it usually does in cases of oneitis--but it will go away. It's high school, you're not going to meet your future wife there. (Well, you might, but you'll divorce her and she'll run away with all your money.)

Turning friends into girlfriends is, at least for me, one of the most difficult things to do, and it's usually not that great; you exchange a little bit of "great" for a lot of "good," so to speak. Or it just queers the relationship and you lose a friend and gain nothing.

So yeah, basically just go meet other girls.
 
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