"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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plz help m out...!!

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Hey, I am Abrar. I really love a girl. She's my best friend and we know each other for more than a year! We are damn close to each other. I don't know when I feel in love with her, so I was like “I’ll tell her”. I decided to tell her one day. I told her that I really like her. She gave a weird answer like “I would stop trusting you,” I heard about a past relationship and they don’t even talk to each other anymore. She was like “just remove this out of your mind.” I just can’t...I really love her...!!! Hmm is there a way out...?? I just can’t live like this cant sleep @ night also sob... sob... we meet everyday talk on phone for hours...!!!Hmm is there a way out that I can forget this all this or make her mine.

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As a note, this is your only warning. Learn to post in a manner that doesn't make my eyes bleed or your thread will be deleted.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Calm down, learn to speak and write English, forget about that girl, and come back. I'd love to help you out, but I can understand about a fifth of what you wrote, if that.

I'll just go with classic advice. GFTOW.
 
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Don't really have any advice, but like stated above you really should learn to type better in English if you want people to understand you. I can understand what you're saying, but it's difficult to read.
 
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Whats wrong with his typing it seems good to me.


Anyway the friend zone is a bad place to be. Its very tough to get out of. Especially with an relpy like that. You got oneitis man. Start talkin to other babes. Read the Bibles. Thats what I am doing now, I have been picking up on subtle things I do to turn girls into friends not prospects. The sooner you stop this the sooner you will have success.

EDIT- wow I am retarded I didnt see the edit by virtual mind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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phew hmm ok will write complete words from next time anyways thanks for ur replies...and fred..hw can ya help me out??
 
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Complete words are a start; complete sentences would be appreciated. ;)

Anyway, sorry to say, but you're pretty much screwed for the time being. I'd say you should either drop her completely (ie, not hang out/talk to her anymore) or use her as a pivot/wing to meet other women. That is, meet her hot friends and use game on them instead of on her. I wouldn't recommend that as you need to forget about her.

Just meet other girls; as you meet awesome, attractive ladies, you'll realize that the first girl isn't that special and that wonderful. It might take some time--it usually does in cases of oneitis--but it will go away. It's high school, you're not going to meet your future wife there. (Well, you might, but you'll divorce her and she'll run away with all your money.)

Turning friends into girlfriends is, at least for me, one of the most difficult things to do, and it's usually not that great; you exchange a little bit of "great" for a lot of "good," so to speak. Or it just queers the relationship and you lose a friend and gain nothing.

So yeah, basically just go meet other girls.
 
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