"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Plz HB rate this chick
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ChillDude6767
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She looks like she's between 12-15 years old.
backseatjuan
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She's 21, and whoever said she is between 5 and 6 can not be serious.
Let's try this again. Photos are clickable.
Let's try this again. Photos are clickable.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GrowingPains
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I'm gonna say between 5 and 6.
But I'm more curious as to why you posted it? Like why do you want our rating?
Rating a girl is so subjective. It's clear that we think something lower (?) than you do. You might think she's an 8. That's fine, everyone likes different things. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say.
You might find someone I think is attractive to be an hb4 where I think she's a 9. Subjective.
But I'm more curious as to why you posted it? Like why do you want our rating?
Rating a girl is so subjective. It's clear that we think something lower (?) than you do. You might think she's an 8. That's fine, everyone likes different things. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say.
You might find someone I think is attractive to be an hb4 where I think she's a 9. Subjective.
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SoSuave666
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Not my type at all. 5 - I wouldn't even think about her walking down the street as a prospect.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GrowingPains
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GrowingPains
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Lmao why you sound so salty about it.
In2theGame
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I'd Bed that chick. However, She looks like the type that once you give it to her good, she's going to cling on to you like a Thanos Grip.
Just to add, What does the body look like?
Just to add, What does the body look like?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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lamath
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Ummm, bruh, my spidey senses tells me that's a tranny.....
backseatjuan
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She's Armenian, a 7 tho. So long as she don't have bassy voice, which a lot of women from Caucasus do.
Agree the girl in my pics is 6.
Now let's HB rate this chick. You can click on images dudes to make them larger, lul, I can't believe I have to say that in 2019, unbelievable magical sht!
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