Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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plugged my first black girl the other day.

BustedKnucks

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Friday night I invited her back to my place. Unfortunately, I live with my parents and sleep in a twin bed, she laughed at it and asked me if I'd come back to her apartment. I went, we did some drugs and got really ****ed up, then she turned on a movie and fell asleep on me. I was pretty muched annoyed that we didn't have sex, especially because her friend had told me earlier in the night she wanted to hook up withe me. I'd give her an hb7. Beautiful face and eyes, slender body, under-impressive chest. Maybe an hb8. So upon leaving her place on saturday morning I got her number, she didn't have a cell just a landline at her apartment. Sunday evening I saw her out again, went back to her place, this time we got it on and she said she was nervous about sex on friday night because she hadn't shaved her legs, claiming to not have had sex in 3 months, which I don't believe at all. Called her back tuesday, made plans to chill that night, but i work nights and then went to the gym, by the time i called her back again, she was sleepy (she's still a student). Didn't want me to pick her up that night, told me "maybe" she'd call me thursday. We'll see what happens tomorrow.

Why am I posting this? Idk, I've gotten head from black girls before but never anything more.

4 girls plugged this month, only 2 hb7+ though. We'll see what happens tomorrow.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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trajhenkhet02

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Maybe your still feeling the thunder from the night which is why your posting. Sounds good for an FB. Watch yourself homie. I wish things would go for me easier back here in the LB, but damn if the chick I'm trying to game is having massive issues.
 

theunflushables

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Black, white, Asian, Vulcan, it doesn't matter the color; a lay is a lay.
 

Four_Aces

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theunflushables said:
Black, white, Asian, Vulcan, it doesn't matter the color; a lay is a lay.
hahaha positive karma to this post.

To the OP: I've never been with a black chick, never desired it, but I would guess it was amazing! Congrats bro.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bloke

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" Why would I stomp on her couch, c'mon, have a little more sense than that.

Yeah I remember stomping on her couch...

Cocaines one hell of a drug. "
 

pingpongz

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I had sex with a black hooker once. She told me to wash my ****.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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