"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Plenty of Fish / So Suave comparisons.

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This will be my last thread on online dating. (Throw a party! lmao)

I find it funny that so many dudes "hate" online dating yet SS seems to be the "DJ" equivalent to POF.

POF when it started (as all online dating) was good for a while in the beginning (so I'd heard) then slowly but surely transformed into a trash heap.

Seems SS is practically the mirror image of online dating.

Same types of damaged people.

Same types sitting online trolling.

Same types of people bigging up themselves online to strangers. (If even true most times.)

Same types of people complaining constantly.

Same hate for the opposite sex.

Same WK's and or so-called "DJs".

For those who hate online dating but love SS...Is there REALLY any difference other than less damaged chicks?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Take values out of the equation and blindly follow the DJ bible dogma at the expense of true spiritual development, and what have you got?

A cult filled with brainwashed people who can't think for themselves.

Not all, but many.

Keep it up and the posters who are not totally full of sh1t are going to get bored and leave this place.
 

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Nope, I go on both purely for attention and ego boosting!!!:cheer:

in fact I dont even go on POF for attention anymore.... its boring and ****e.


and I doubt this will be your last POF thread :D
 

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Purefilth said:
Nope, I go on both purely for attention and ego boosting!!!:cheer:

in fact I dont even go on POF for attention anymore.... its boring and ****e.


and I doubt this will be your last POF thread :D

Nah. Got tired of talking about that crap. If I get PM'd about it I'll tell the dude to look up any POF/online dating thread. Other than that I got bored of it.

As for POF itself I haven't had my profile on in a year and three months now.

It was a good experiment and breaking balls, testing responses, bsing, getting n00ds etc. but other than that just damaged trash in a landfill. Nothing more.

The purpose of THIS thread is pretty much that POF is extremely similar to SS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Naughty Ninja said:


The purpose of THIS thread is pretty much that POF is extremely similar to SS.
Cool story bro.

How many numbers you picked up?

How many d'you think will become snl's?:crackup:

Sageproduct is a sure thing i hear;)
 

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Purefilth said:
Cool story bro.

How many numbers you picked up?

How many d'you think will become snl's?:crackup:

Sageproduct is a sure thing i hear;)
I haven't gotten yours. That's the one that REALLY counts!

Now stop trollolloling in my troll thread. :up:
 

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Never been on POF but I like SS cuz there's great advice and info if you sift through all the bullsh1t, and not take the info here as dogma like Darth said.
 

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TheStig said:
Never been on POF but I like SS cuz there's great advice and info if you sift through all the bullsh1t, and not take the info here as dogma like Darth said.
Exactly. There will always be some golden nuggets of infornation here. I take the good with the bad.

I also don't buy into the "All good posters have left" stuff. I can think of several great posters still here.
 

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I've never done any online dating, but I've looked on POF just to see what was on there. Bear in mind these observations are only based what I see available in my area:

1) The women on there that are my age or near my age are probably the most butt ugly of any I have ever seen.
2) 99% of the women on there are single mothers. That actually may be a conservative estimate.
3) Some of the younger girls on there (20s, 30s) are pretty (even if they have 2 or 3 kids lol). But guys my age are blocked from even messaging them. That's why once you hit your 50s, boys, you have to sarge in real life. Because I've found that young women are very open to dating a cool older guy if you're standing right in front of them. But on paper, forget it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can understand why there is plenty of hate for plenty of fish threads on here.

I will say that NN's material has landed me 30 dates or so. I thought some were normal on okcupid but then realized later that they were all crazy as a loon.

It's also been a sad day because the mom/roommate copy/pasta has died in my area.

I am trying to get more free time from work because club game is where it's at... I have to work the night shift now and it's killing me.

I'm a newb but i've seen alot of teens asking questions like "i'm on top of this girl and her PVssy is soaking wet. What should I do next?"
 
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