"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Plenty of Fish / So Suave comparisons.

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This will be my last thread on online dating. (Throw a party! lmao)

I find it funny that so many dudes "hate" online dating yet SS seems to be the "DJ" equivalent to POF.

POF when it started (as all online dating) was good for a while in the beginning (so I'd heard) then slowly but surely transformed into a trash heap.

Seems SS is practically the mirror image of online dating.

Same types of damaged people.

Same types sitting online trolling.

Same types of people bigging up themselves online to strangers. (If even true most times.)

Same types of people complaining constantly.

Same hate for the opposite sex.

Same WK's and or so-called "DJs".

For those who hate online dating but love SS...Is there REALLY any difference other than less damaged chicks?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Take values out of the equation and blindly follow the DJ bible dogma at the expense of true spiritual development, and what have you got?

A cult filled with brainwashed people who can't think for themselves.

Not all, but many.

Keep it up and the posters who are not totally full of sh1t are going to get bored and leave this place.
 

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Nope, I go on both purely for attention and ego boosting!!!:cheer:

in fact I dont even go on POF for attention anymore.... its boring and ****e.


and I doubt this will be your last POF thread :D
 

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Purefilth said:
Nope, I go on both purely for attention and ego boosting!!!:cheer:

in fact I dont even go on POF for attention anymore.... its boring and ****e.


and I doubt this will be your last POF thread :D

Nah. Got tired of talking about that crap. If I get PM'd about it I'll tell the dude to look up any POF/online dating thread. Other than that I got bored of it.

As for POF itself I haven't had my profile on in a year and three months now.

It was a good experiment and breaking balls, testing responses, bsing, getting n00ds etc. but other than that just damaged trash in a landfill. Nothing more.

The purpose of THIS thread is pretty much that POF is extremely similar to SS.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Naughty Ninja said:


The purpose of THIS thread is pretty much that POF is extremely similar to SS.
Cool story bro.

How many numbers you picked up?

How many d'you think will become snl's?:crackup:

Sageproduct is a sure thing i hear;)
 

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Purefilth said:
Cool story bro.

How many numbers you picked up?

How many d'you think will become snl's?:crackup:

Sageproduct is a sure thing i hear;)
I haven't gotten yours. That's the one that REALLY counts!

Now stop trollolloling in my troll thread. :up:
 

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Never been on POF but I like SS cuz there's great advice and info if you sift through all the bullsh1t, and not take the info here as dogma like Darth said.
 

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TheStig said:
Never been on POF but I like SS cuz there's great advice and info if you sift through all the bullsh1t, and not take the info here as dogma like Darth said.
Exactly. There will always be some golden nuggets of infornation here. I take the good with the bad.

I also don't buy into the "All good posters have left" stuff. I can think of several great posters still here.
 

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I've never done any online dating, but I've looked on POF just to see what was on there. Bear in mind these observations are only based what I see available in my area:

1) The women on there that are my age or near my age are probably the most butt ugly of any I have ever seen.
2) 99% of the women on there are single mothers. That actually may be a conservative estimate.
3) Some of the younger girls on there (20s, 30s) are pretty (even if they have 2 or 3 kids lol). But guys my age are blocked from even messaging them. That's why once you hit your 50s, boys, you have to sarge in real life. Because I've found that young women are very open to dating a cool older guy if you're standing right in front of them. But on paper, forget it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I can understand why there is plenty of hate for plenty of fish threads on here.

I will say that NN's material has landed me 30 dates or so. I thought some were normal on okcupid but then realized later that they were all crazy as a loon.

It's also been a sad day because the mom/roommate copy/pasta has died in my area.

I am trying to get more free time from work because club game is where it's at... I have to work the night shift now and it's killing me.

I'm a newb but i've seen alot of teens asking questions like "i'm on top of this girl and her PVssy is soaking wet. What should I do next?"
 
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