“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok, I'm gonna give PlentyOfFish a try. Why not, right? I was trying to think of something different, as I looked through some guys' profiles and they all say the SAME THING!

Due to the fact this is very new for me (and I wrote it an hour past my bed time!) I am looking for some suggestions, advice, criticisms... anything. I won't be offended if you hate it, just give me the dirt straight up.

About Me
Is anyone else bored of seeing the same things in every profile? Let's make it interesting. Message me back with the answers you think are correct, and MAYBE I'll get back to you ;)

1. Do I wear boxers or briefs?
2. Cubs fan or White Sox fan?
3. What music do I listen to?
a. Rock
b. Hip Hop
c. Country
4. (Heres the hard one) What country do I want to travel to most?
a. Sorry, no choices here! Time to think.

Good luck! :)

First Date
For a first date I would like to keep it simple. A quick lunch or grabbing a drink works great to start to get to know someone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No advice? Criticisms? Anything? Not even you, Naughty Ninja? I thought you would be all over a POF thread.
 

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Ran to work. I forgot this thread. Anyway..

About Me
Is anyone else bored of seeing the same things in every profile? Let's make it interesting. Message me back with the answers you think are correct, and MAYBE I'll get back to you

1. Do I wear boxers or briefs?
2. Cubs fan or White Sox fan?
3. What music do I listen to?
a. Rock
b. Hip Hop
c. Country
4. (Heres the hard one) What country do I want to travel to most?
a. Sorry, no choices here! Time to think.

Good luck!


No good looking girl is going to read and reply to your test UNLESS you look great in pictures. You need a beach pic. I wouldn't even send that as an intro message UNLESS you look like a 9 or above in guy looks. They'll just delete it...You only need a simple "about me" section with NO negativity or putting anyone down. Just a carefree fun guy attitude..The first date section is fine below...

First Date
For a first date I would like to keep it simple. A quick lunch or grabbing a drink works great to start to get to know someone.

Either copy and paste and spam (tweaking every so often to not get picked up as spam by POF. Only a word or two change will do) the POF email I made up or make up your own generic yet seemingly "tailored" to their profile fun lighthearted message and spam it out. They see your pictures with the email...so have your best up and they WILL reply. Especially if you work out and have a non-posed beach pic...I'm sure many would respond to a shirtless bathroom pic too...just don't have it as your main pic..
 

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When you write your profile, think of a car commercial-- where all they do is play music and show images. Their idea is to create a FEELING, not "sell" a car. You can do the same thing, using words and ideas. It's what romance fiction is about. Create memories of experiences that haven't yet happened.
Avoid using "I" in your sentences. Instead, write about YOU.

When I created my page on the horsie-singles site, I looked at what the men were writing-- it was all the same crap.
I wondered at first how I could go up against these guys who all have spreads in the country, but that was no problem. I made myself up to be the total opposite! Women emailed from all over the country, saying what a great page I had.
 

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Hmm, thanks for the input guys. I'm gonna work on it some more. I think I may have tried too hard to be different, and ended up going an unnecessary route. I appreciate any additional suggestions anyone has.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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