"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interesting feedback I've received from using different profile pics.

I used to use warm, big grinning profile pictures but that never got much attention from the hot babes.

Now that I use a more sultry (smouldering as one babe put it) picture it gets a lot more attention. I kind of look like a male model and I'm not smiling in it.

I mix this with a smartly dressed, and casual picture.

I've noticed that a smile rather than a toothy grin gets better responses for some reason. it seems more sexy and less goofy.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sylvester the cat said:
Interesting feedback I've received from using different profile pics.

I used to use warm, big grinning profile pictures but that never got much attention from the hot babes.

Now that I use a more sultry (smouldering as one babe put it) picture it gets a lot more attention. I kind of look like a male model and I'm not smiling in it.

I mix this with a smartly dressed, and casual picture.

I've noticed that a smile rather than a toothy grin gets better responses for some reason. it seems more sexy and less goofy.

here's my profile. let me know what you think. I'm gonna take it down soon cos i like anonymity.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=45618445
looks fine.. but depends what you are going for.. if its simply to 'get laid' SAME DAY/NIGHT (and not go on any dates)... i'd suggest an edgier profile pic... shirtless, sex appeal, maybe giving the finger or holding a beer.. something that will SCREEN OUT the girls that are looking for boyfriends (and courting)... and work on the girls that are DTF.. but if thats not you goal, and you'd like a profile pic that "attracts the most girls possible," this is fine is totally fine, good looking, good style.. itll work fine

There's some discussion of the "dating" profiles vs. "dtf" profiles here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196805
 

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I think you are a fairly goodlooking guy (of course what women think is the only thing that really matters). You look young for your age. But I think you really need to tweezer your eyebrows as it looks like you have a uni-brow. I can't believe you haven't address that issue long ago. Otherwise you have good looking 'brows.

I tend to believe that a smile showing teeth is more effective, but I'm not going to argue if you had better responses with a straight face. Perhaps only in person and when talking and conversing, does never smiling for emphasis comes across as weird an unattractive, but not in static pics. Of course if you have gapping, crooked or stained teeth or a bad smile, then smiling would not be beneficial. Another factor is you seem like a nice guy and a slight brooding look is maybe compensating in a good way. Some guys can look like an "a$$hole" even with a huge smile.

I'm not liking the family pic with what looks like your sister and/or mother, grandmother. It just seems to give the impression you live with your mom and are never around young, attractive women. Plus a seated pics like that just don't give a flattering angle-makes your bottom look big and your shoulders small. One other thing, if you are already a true 5'11, why not just say 6'? One inch seems trivial but "6'" has an advantage. Besides probably most every other shorter douche on there is fudging his height.
 

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Stagger Lee said:
I think you are a fairly goodlooking guy (of course what women think is the only thing that really matters). You look young for your age. But I think you really need to tweezer your eyebrows as it looks like you have a uni-brow. I can't believe you haven't address that issue long ago. Otherwise you have good looking 'brows.

I tend to believe that a smile showing teeth is more effective, but I'm not going to argue if you had better responses with a straight face. Perhaps only in person and when talking and conversing, does never smiling for emphasis comes across as weird an unattractive, but not in static pics. Of course if you have gapping, crooked or stained teeth or a bad smile, then smiling would not be beneficial. Another factor is you seem like a nice guy and a slight brooding look is maybe compensating in a good way. Some guys can look like an "a$$hole" even with a huge smile.

I'm not liking the family pic with what looks like your sister and/or mother, grandmother. It just seems to give the impression you live with your mom and are never around young, attractive women. Plus a seated pics like that just don't give a flattering angle-makes your bottom look big and your shoulders small. One other thing, if you are already a true 5'11, why not just say 6'? One inch seems trivial but "6'" has an advantage. Besides probably most every other shorter douche on there is fudging his height.
i DO tweezer my eyebrows...lol. funny you should mention that. i was looking at it earlier and i thought the same thing. ****!

yeah i too was worried about the old woman and auntie pic but i just dont have any cool party ones with hot babes.

yeah - i too wondered about the big bottom! but i think that may be the effect of too many beers and burgers. glad you didnt mention the '***** tit' on the casual brown shirt pic. though that might have been picked up on.

i am a true 5'11 im too honest for my own good i guess. and i am a nice guy. i truly nice guy. until you get to know me. then i' a bit of an a***hole. :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you lift weights a few times a week i think your success rate would start to go sky high.
 
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