"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sylvester the cat

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Interesting feedback I've received from using different profile pics.

I used to use warm, big grinning profile pictures but that never got much attention from the hot babes.

Now that I use a more sultry (smouldering as one babe put it) picture it gets a lot more attention. I kind of look like a male model and I'm not smiling in it.

I mix this with a smartly dressed, and casual picture.

I've noticed that a smile rather than a toothy grin gets better responses for some reason. it seems more sexy and less goofy.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sylvester the cat said:
Interesting feedback I've received from using different profile pics.

I used to use warm, big grinning profile pictures but that never got much attention from the hot babes.

Now that I use a more sultry (smouldering as one babe put it) picture it gets a lot more attention. I kind of look like a male model and I'm not smiling in it.

I mix this with a smartly dressed, and casual picture.

I've noticed that a smile rather than a toothy grin gets better responses for some reason. it seems more sexy and less goofy.

here's my profile. let me know what you think. I'm gonna take it down soon cos i like anonymity.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=45618445
looks fine.. but depends what you are going for.. if its simply to 'get laid' SAME DAY/NIGHT (and not go on any dates)... i'd suggest an edgier profile pic... shirtless, sex appeal, maybe giving the finger or holding a beer.. something that will SCREEN OUT the girls that are looking for boyfriends (and courting)... and work on the girls that are DTF.. but if thats not you goal, and you'd like a profile pic that "attracts the most girls possible," this is fine is totally fine, good looking, good style.. itll work fine

There's some discussion of the "dating" profiles vs. "dtf" profiles here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196805
 

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I think you are a fairly goodlooking guy (of course what women think is the only thing that really matters). You look young for your age. But I think you really need to tweezer your eyebrows as it looks like you have a uni-brow. I can't believe you haven't address that issue long ago. Otherwise you have good looking 'brows.

I tend to believe that a smile showing teeth is more effective, but I'm not going to argue if you had better responses with a straight face. Perhaps only in person and when talking and conversing, does never smiling for emphasis comes across as weird an unattractive, but not in static pics. Of course if you have gapping, crooked or stained teeth or a bad smile, then smiling would not be beneficial. Another factor is you seem like a nice guy and a slight brooding look is maybe compensating in a good way. Some guys can look like an "a$$hole" even with a huge smile.

I'm not liking the family pic with what looks like your sister and/or mother, grandmother. It just seems to give the impression you live with your mom and are never around young, attractive women. Plus a seated pics like that just don't give a flattering angle-makes your bottom look big and your shoulders small. One other thing, if you are already a true 5'11, why not just say 6'? One inch seems trivial but "6'" has an advantage. Besides probably most every other shorter douche on there is fudging his height.
 

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Stagger Lee said:
I think you are a fairly goodlooking guy (of course what women think is the only thing that really matters). You look young for your age. But I think you really need to tweezer your eyebrows as it looks like you have a uni-brow. I can't believe you haven't address that issue long ago. Otherwise you have good looking 'brows.

I tend to believe that a smile showing teeth is more effective, but I'm not going to argue if you had better responses with a straight face. Perhaps only in person and when talking and conversing, does never smiling for emphasis comes across as weird an unattractive, but not in static pics. Of course if you have gapping, crooked or stained teeth or a bad smile, then smiling would not be beneficial. Another factor is you seem like a nice guy and a slight brooding look is maybe compensating in a good way. Some guys can look like an "a$$hole" even with a huge smile.

I'm not liking the family pic with what looks like your sister and/or mother, grandmother. It just seems to give the impression you live with your mom and are never around young, attractive women. Plus a seated pics like that just don't give a flattering angle-makes your bottom look big and your shoulders small. One other thing, if you are already a true 5'11, why not just say 6'? One inch seems trivial but "6'" has an advantage. Besides probably most every other shorter douche on there is fudging his height.
i DO tweezer my eyebrows...lol. funny you should mention that. i was looking at it earlier and i thought the same thing. ****!

yeah i too was worried about the old woman and auntie pic but i just dont have any cool party ones with hot babes.

yeah - i too wondered about the big bottom! but i think that may be the effect of too many beers and burgers. glad you didnt mention the '***** tit' on the casual brown shirt pic. though that might have been picked up on.

i am a true 5'11 im too honest for my own good i guess. and i am a nice guy. i truly nice guy. until you get to know me. then i' a bit of an a***hole. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if you lift weights a few times a week i think your success rate would start to go sky high.
 
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