"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plenty of Fish Crew: C&P Message updates?

Naughty Ninja

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Shivastorm_88 said:
Mmmh facebook could be a good idea, do you suggest I add them before I even try to go for the number?

What you're doing is good. I'd ask for Facebook after I've gotten their number and or sometimes before if they aren't comfortable giving their number out to see more pictures of them as you don't want to ask or guess their POF pictures are current unless they put the dates in the pictures themselves.

Ask for a number first.

Then or maybe only ask for a Facebook if you aren't totally sure their pics are current or are blurry etc. just to get a better idea for yourself of what they look like in various pics and the type of person they are.

So far it sounds like you're doing good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I made a profile and sent the message to some girls. So far I've received 6 responses and that's awesome. Now, I'm having trouble with the second email. I haven't heard from them since.

Tips? Possible replies?

Here are the replies:

"Ahahahahaha i don't know if i should be flattered or scared :p"

"Hahaha really?! It's that good?? Hmmm"

"thanks you boy
my frend help my to write becose i jsut come from estonia contry
and my speaking english lasagna is no so good
I'm Katrinya"

"thanks haha"

"I'm really tall, i have a tattoo, i have piercings, and i drink. Apparently not the girl for you, considering those are all turn offs..."

"You're serious? And how many have you told that to?"

I wrote back, but I simply get nothing back. I don't know if what I'm saying sucks or what, but I just don't know what to write to these women. I'm not very good with online stuff, but I do want to use it as a tool in addition to approaching in real life, just like Naughty Ninja
 

Naughty Ninja

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Robyn923b said:
I made a profile and sent the message to some girls. So far I've received 6 responses and that's awesome. Now, I'm having trouble with the second email. I haven't heard from them since.

Tips? Possible replies?

Here are the replies:

"Ahahahahaha i don't know if i should be flattered or scared :p"

"Hahaha really?! It's that good?? Hmmm"

"thanks you boy
my frend help my to write becose i jsut come from estonia contry
and my speaking english lasagna is no so good
I'm Katrinya"

"thanks haha"

"I'm really tall, i have a tattoo, i have piercings, and i drink. Apparently not the girl for you, considering those are all turn offs..."

"You're serious? And how many have you told that to?"

I wrote back, but I simply get nothing back. I don't know if what I'm saying sucks or what, but I just don't know what to write to these women. I'm not very good with online stuff, but I do want to use it as a tool in addition to approaching in real life, just like Naughty Ninja
Just make sure you have a bunch of good pictures and the reply to theirs is just normal conversation. IE: How was your weekend? Do anything fun? What do you like to do for fun etc.
 
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