"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Naughty Ninja

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Shivastorm_88 said:
Mmmh facebook could be a good idea, do you suggest I add them before I even try to go for the number?

What you're doing is good. I'd ask for Facebook after I've gotten their number and or sometimes before if they aren't comfortable giving their number out to see more pictures of them as you don't want to ask or guess their POF pictures are current unless they put the dates in the pictures themselves.

Ask for a number first.

Then or maybe only ask for a Facebook if you aren't totally sure their pics are current or are blurry etc. just to get a better idea for yourself of what they look like in various pics and the type of person they are.

So far it sounds like you're doing good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I made a profile and sent the message to some girls. So far I've received 6 responses and that's awesome. Now, I'm having trouble with the second email. I haven't heard from them since.

Tips? Possible replies?

Here are the replies:

"Ahahahahaha i don't know if i should be flattered or scared :p"

"Hahaha really?! It's that good?? Hmmm"

"thanks you boy
my frend help my to write becose i jsut come from estonia contry
and my speaking english lasagna is no so good
I'm Katrinya"

"thanks haha"

"I'm really tall, i have a tattoo, i have piercings, and i drink. Apparently not the girl for you, considering those are all turn offs..."

"You're serious? And how many have you told that to?"

I wrote back, but I simply get nothing back. I don't know if what I'm saying sucks or what, but I just don't know what to write to these women. I'm not very good with online stuff, but I do want to use it as a tool in addition to approaching in real life, just like Naughty Ninja
 

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Robyn923b said:
I made a profile and sent the message to some girls. So far I've received 6 responses and that's awesome. Now, I'm having trouble with the second email. I haven't heard from them since.

Tips? Possible replies?

Here are the replies:

"Ahahahahaha i don't know if i should be flattered or scared :p"

"Hahaha really?! It's that good?? Hmmm"

"thanks you boy
my frend help my to write becose i jsut come from estonia contry
and my speaking english lasagna is no so good
I'm Katrinya"

"thanks haha"

"I'm really tall, i have a tattoo, i have piercings, and i drink. Apparently not the girl for you, considering those are all turn offs..."

"You're serious? And how many have you told that to?"

I wrote back, but I simply get nothing back. I don't know if what I'm saying sucks or what, but I just don't know what to write to these women. I'm not very good with online stuff, but I do want to use it as a tool in addition to approaching in real life, just like Naughty Ninja
Just make sure you have a bunch of good pictures and the reply to theirs is just normal conversation. IE: How was your weekend? Do anything fun? What do you like to do for fun etc.
 
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