"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Plenty od Fish "Congratulations" opener email explained

Naughty Ninja

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So far a few posters seem to be getting good responses back from the Plenty of Fish "Congratulations" email opener I created.

Why do I feel it works?

First:

The title itself is different from the normal email headlines chicks get and the "Congratulations" title makes them feel they've "won" something.

Second: The email body in a semi-funny or could be serious way boosts their ego not on looks but on what they wrote..or didn't write..It makes them feel you are into them for what they wrote more than just their looks which is obvious why you wrote them in the beginning.

Third: The "adorable lil nerd" line is a compliment and a semi knock at the same time confusing them a bit.

Fourth: The banana that dances is eye catching.

The Fifth last part: "Ciao Bella" sends a possible exotic mystique from you the sender rather than a normal "write me back" or you are hot, gorgeous etc..

Title: Congratulations!

Body:

Congratulations. If I ever meet the owner of Plenty of Fish I’m going to demand to him that you be paid for your profile. For a free dating site, yours is THE greatest profile ever written in the history of online dating!

I swear I’m going to print it out and post it on my fridge to admire…FOREVER..Keep up the good work you adorable lil nerd! :banana:

Ciao bella. =)



I need to figure out a new intro email along the same lines that can be a general compliment to them rather than just looks and an eye catching headline..Any ideas?

I'm sure based of why I think the email works posters can come up with something along the same lines that we could use to not burn out the original one..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dudes are gunna find this from google searchs and they'll flood POF with these types of emails.
let me be the 1st to say hello to you internet google nerds. =)
 

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trrush said:
dudes are gunna find this from google searchs and they'll flood POF with these types of emails.
let me be the 1st to say hello to you internet google nerds. =)

Good for them. Let them Google themselves silly. I get a kick out of that wacky site. If it gets them responses the more the merrier. I can make up tons of different emails that get good responses. I just have to be in the mood.

Who has time to read, craft and create different original emails to each chick they find attractive and hope or PAY to see if she's even READ the friggin email let alone hope for a reply? What are these chicks going to do? "Complain" that it's a "Copy and paste" job?

First: They GIVE a response.

THEN: They GET their profile read.

They can like it or not.
 

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I've heard POF is cracking down on copypastes. Like shutting down people's pages who copy/paste messages, etc. I was going to make an account once I actually start getting paid again, and I've been trolling different sites for ideas about how to maximize philandering. This might severely crack down on productivity, no?
 

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WhitePimp said:
I've heard POF is cracking down on copypastes. Like shutting down people's pages who copy/paste messages, etc. I was going to make an account once I actually start getting paid again, and I've been trolling different sites for ideas about how to maximize philandering. This might severely crack down on productivity, no?

Just tweak the opener email by a word or two every 4 emails. And it won't catch it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just sent out the BodyBuilding "Welch's grape juice" opener that those guys use. I think it's a pretty funny opener to use, and I tweaked it a bit. I'll see what responses I get from that. If anything it's good for some lolz.
 

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TheManOfSteel said:
I just sent out the BodyBuilding "Welch's grape juice" opener that those guys use. I think it's a pretty funny opener to use, and I tweaked it a bit. I'll see what responses I get from that. If anything it's good for some lolz.
Post it in this or a new thread so people off here can test it too..
 
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