Captain Popular
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Please Tell Me Im Not The Only One????
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Ok this was in the quick tips section. I like to read the new articles and tips but i honesty think this was a pretty lame attempt...how does this guy get his so called close on the tip page?
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READ. He got the number.
Ok this was in the quick tips section. I like to read the new articles and tips but i honesty think this was a pretty lame attempt...how does this guy get his so called close on the tip page?
Answer:
READ. He got the number.
thekingdooder
Don Juan
Looks like you did everything right, son.
Captain Popular
Don Juan
It's nothing special....leaning in watching her write the number seems gay to me....he got a number wow?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Captain Popular
Don Juan
ohh, dont get me wrong, nothing is wrong with it, i pretty much wanted to know how it got on the page? i thought it was to simple....ok lets drop the subject now!
White_Rabbit
Don Juan
Definately not my style of getting numbers but if it worked for him kudo's to him. :cheer:
Good aproach.
> Hey girl, what's your name?
I dont usually ask their name. I get them intrigued enough to ask mine first. This in itself is an IOI.
> So, whaddya think about our class
VERY GOOD! Open ended question, allows her to talk on and on and release those happy hormones women get when they talk.
I would have actually started on that line.
> Hey girl, what's your name?
I dont usually ask their name. I get them intrigued enough to ask mine first. This in itself is an IOI.
> So, whaddya think about our class
VERY GOOD! Open ended question, allows her to talk on and on and release those happy hormones women get when they talk.
I would have actually started on that line.