"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Please Tell Me Im Not The Only One????

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok this was in the quick tips section. I like to read the new articles and tips but i honesty think this was a pretty lame attempt...how does this guy get his so called close on the tip page?

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READ. He got the number.
 

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It's nothing special....leaning in watching her write the number seems gay to me....he got a number wow?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, it's nothing special. But there's nothing WRONG with it. What's your problem with it? Just another example of one way to strike up a conversation and get a chicks number.
 

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ohh, dont get me wrong, nothing is wrong with it, i pretty much wanted to know how it got on the page? i thought it was to simple....ok lets drop the subject now!
 

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Definately not my style of getting numbers but if it worked for him kudo's to him. :cheer:
 

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Good aproach.

> Hey girl, what's your name?

I dont usually ask their name. I get them intrigued enough to ask mine first. This in itself is an IOI.

> So, whaddya think about our class

VERY GOOD! Open ended question, allows her to talk on and on and release those happy hormones women get when they talk.

I would have actually started on that line.
 
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