“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Please teach me how to smile.

Arsinel

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I have nice, straight teeth but I don't know how to smile. I don't walk around gloomy, but I don't really know how to smile. Someone please teach me how.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's a matter of self-confidence; not how good, or bad, one may look.
 

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Arsinel said:
Noob. You didn't teach me.
HAHA, who gave you the power to talk to people?

You JUST SMILE, teaching you would require me to beat you over the head with a crowbar everytime you didn't smile.:trouble:

I didn't think you wanted to go there.:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When you're happy you smile correct? Just think to yourself, "This girl is going to be sucking my d*ck later". You should at least grin when you think this.
 

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Arsinel said:
Noob. You didn't teach me.

You need to be taught how to smile...do you see the problem with that?:nono:
 

Flabbergasped?

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If you dunno how to smile, you had no childhood.
 

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No, I've laughed and had merry times. I just don't really know how to smile. Like, if I wanted to smile to a girl, I don't really know how to do it. Like with my teeth.
 

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bro all I can say is, practice in the mirror. then get used to doing it and keep doing it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok, I officially declare this High School board the "I'm too dumb to figure out anything without being told how" board.

And I declare this board dead beyond hope of being helpful.

Seriously, everyone here is asking stupid stuff now. Just gain confidence and everything will naturally follow. Later I'll write on confidence.

Shapoopie out
 

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Dude unless you've had a stroke there is no way in hell you need to be "taught" how to smile (i remember a cetrain sticky... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=99344 point number 5 mate)

anyway sounds to me like your problem is not being unskilled in the fine art that is smiling *cough*...but that you dont have the balls to smile at a girl. like shapooie said, you need the confidence not to be intimidated by looking a chick in the eye and smiling at her
 

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Just smile, dammit! Lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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contract the muscles on both corners of your mouth and spread your lips apart slightly while holding your teeth gently together. raise your cheeks and your eyebrows for added charm.

man people dont know how to do anything here.
 

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Stop replying. This fool is a troll.

And don't even start with me, I'll tear your head off.
 

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I'm starting to think that the search button is there for no reason.
 
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Arsinel Noob. You didn't teach me.
AC/DC Stop replying. This fool is a troll.

And don't even start with me, I'll tear your head off.
lolz funny shhhhiit lolz :nervous: I looooooooooove this face


these two lolz :nervous: :woo: lolz (and the z at the end of the lol is cute as fucck so don't even mess with me :moon: :crackup: :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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