Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Please teach me how to smile.

Arsinel

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I have nice, straight teeth but I don't know how to smile. I don't walk around gloomy, but I don't really know how to smile. Someone please teach me how.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a matter of self-confidence; not how good, or bad, one may look.
 

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Arsinel said:
Noob. You didn't teach me.
HAHA, who gave you the power to talk to people?

You JUST SMILE, teaching you would require me to beat you over the head with a crowbar everytime you didn't smile.:trouble:

I didn't think you wanted to go there.:rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When you're happy you smile correct? Just think to yourself, "This girl is going to be sucking my d*ck later". You should at least grin when you think this.
 

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Arsinel said:
Noob. You didn't teach me.

You need to be taught how to smile...do you see the problem with that?:nono:
 

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If you dunno how to smile, you had no childhood.
 

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No, I've laughed and had merry times. I just don't really know how to smile. Like, if I wanted to smile to a girl, I don't really know how to do it. Like with my teeth.
 

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bro all I can say is, practice in the mirror. then get used to doing it and keep doing it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok, I officially declare this High School board the "I'm too dumb to figure out anything without being told how" board.

And I declare this board dead beyond hope of being helpful.

Seriously, everyone here is asking stupid stuff now. Just gain confidence and everything will naturally follow. Later I'll write on confidence.

Shapoopie out
 

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Dude unless you've had a stroke there is no way in hell you need to be "taught" how to smile (i remember a cetrain sticky... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=99344 point number 5 mate)

anyway sounds to me like your problem is not being unskilled in the fine art that is smiling *cough*...but that you dont have the balls to smile at a girl. like shapooie said, you need the confidence not to be intimidated by looking a chick in the eye and smiling at her
 

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Just smile, dammit! Lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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contract the muscles on both corners of your mouth and spread your lips apart slightly while holding your teeth gently together. raise your cheeks and your eyebrows for added charm.

man people dont know how to do anything here.
 

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Stop replying. This fool is a troll.

And don't even start with me, I'll tear your head off.
 

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I'm starting to think that the search button is there for no reason.
 
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Arsinel Noob. You didn't teach me.
AC/DC Stop replying. This fool is a troll.

And don't even start with me, I'll tear your head off.
lolz funny shhhhiit lolz :nervous: I looooooooooove this face


these two lolz :nervous: :woo: lolz (and the z at the end of the lol is cute as fucck so don't even mess with me :moon: :crackup: :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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