Sorry, this means a lot to me so it's lengthy...
Its been nealy a year since I've needed this place. The same time last year my girlfriend of 7 months dumped me and I went through hell.. found the girl of my dreams in Feb... and now just two days ago, she dumped me over the phone.
I madly fell in love with her, she was basically another reason to live. I love her entire family and all that. We got along perfectly, I really imagined us being married for the rest of our lives. I know it sounds silly, and a lot of people don't know what love is... but I can say that I do.
She's turning 18, and I'm 21. Quite an age difference but her family is perfectly fine with it. We haven't had sex. Though she's only 17 righ now, she's more mature than that. She works 2 jobs, senior in high school, cheerleading, church.
This is brining me to my next point. This is why she dumped me, she told me that she is way too stressed out right now from everything and can't handle a relationship. I don't know what to think of that. We only see eachother once a week since school started. She also told me that in the beginning of our relationship she had that feeling for me, like a burning sensation in her stomach... and now, it's not there so much. So, I put the pieces together and realized she doesn't feel the same because she is overloaded with stress.. therefore she is a blank slate and can't devote hardly any time to a relationship. This is due to stress overload. The feeling comes back.. every couple, even married couples lose the feeling due to overload. Though it always comes back with time. Am i right?
She also stated that sometimes she questions why she's in a relationship. And I was thinking.. doesn't everyone who's in a relationship question that? Even the most perfect couples question that. She said she shouldn't have to question it. I also want to point out that she tells me that I'm a perfect boyfriend... and the best one that she's ever had. Her entire family feels the same way about me. Her mother told her it's very rare to come across a great guy like me.
She tells me that it's nothing I did wrong, at all. She says it's her. I told her I'm fine with giving her space and time to think about it, and let everything settle down and blow over... and asked her to promise me once everything does, she'll continue our relationship. She told me she can't promise that. She also has a hard time communicating her feelings and emotions. She hasn't told me nor any other guy that she loved him. Not even me. I asked her why and she said I don't know.
I haven't eaten since then, I feel like I want to die.. she's all I'm thinking about. I'm skipped my classes all this week... I don't know what to do..
Someone please analyze this and tell me what to do to get her back. I need to know what to say... I love her too much for this to end like this. Thank you
Its been nealy a year since I've needed this place. The same time last year my girlfriend of 7 months dumped me and I went through hell.. found the girl of my dreams in Feb... and now just two days ago, she dumped me over the phone.
I madly fell in love with her, she was basically another reason to live. I love her entire family and all that. We got along perfectly, I really imagined us being married for the rest of our lives. I know it sounds silly, and a lot of people don't know what love is... but I can say that I do.
She's turning 18, and I'm 21. Quite an age difference but her family is perfectly fine with it. We haven't had sex. Though she's only 17 righ now, she's more mature than that. She works 2 jobs, senior in high school, cheerleading, church.
This is brining me to my next point. This is why she dumped me, she told me that she is way too stressed out right now from everything and can't handle a relationship. I don't know what to think of that. We only see eachother once a week since school started. She also told me that in the beginning of our relationship she had that feeling for me, like a burning sensation in her stomach... and now, it's not there so much. So, I put the pieces together and realized she doesn't feel the same because she is overloaded with stress.. therefore she is a blank slate and can't devote hardly any time to a relationship. This is due to stress overload. The feeling comes back.. every couple, even married couples lose the feeling due to overload. Though it always comes back with time. Am i right?
She also stated that sometimes she questions why she's in a relationship. And I was thinking.. doesn't everyone who's in a relationship question that? Even the most perfect couples question that. She said she shouldn't have to question it. I also want to point out that she tells me that I'm a perfect boyfriend... and the best one that she's ever had. Her entire family feels the same way about me. Her mother told her it's very rare to come across a great guy like me.
She tells me that it's nothing I did wrong, at all. She says it's her. I told her I'm fine with giving her space and time to think about it, and let everything settle down and blow over... and asked her to promise me once everything does, she'll continue our relationship. She told me she can't promise that. She also has a hard time communicating her feelings and emotions. She hasn't told me nor any other guy that she loved him. Not even me. I asked her why and she said I don't know.
I haven't eaten since then, I feel like I want to die.. she's all I'm thinking about. I'm skipped my classes all this week... I don't know what to do..
Someone please analyze this and tell me what to do to get her back. I need to know what to say... I love her too much for this to end like this. Thank you
