"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Please quick advice! Never had this situation...

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I am taking a course and have a week- long professor. She is older than me but I'm really into her. We've been talking alot, tonight for about 20 minutes after class. She's probably 7 years older than me, no ring, amazing looks and we're getting along great.

So far the conversation has been all professional, but she's dropped a few comments on her personality to me, which I take as she's opening up. I'll probably never see her after this week. Any thoughts on if / how I should approach? Should I just drop her my contact details and leave it up to her to see if she contacts me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have another good conversation. Smile, and be nice but cool and confident.
Then, at the close of the "feel good conversation"... Tell her you enjoyed her views on "such-n-such". Hand her your phone and tell her to punch in her digits so you can give her a quick call in the future, if you need more info. (don't just ask for her number)

That way, she doesnt feel like she is compromising her ethics by giving a student her number.

Then.. call her in a couple of weeks inviting her for drinks & "such-n-such" conversation. Usually after work is a more acceptable time. Make it a place that she frequents, or better yet, a place near her home. When you meet up with her, be sure to look good, smell good, and be charming and CONFIDENT. Make her laugh. Then get her buzzed. Lots of kino!!! Dont overdrink yourself. Maybe if the opening is there, say you are hungry. Then if she is too, suggest bringing take-out to her place. Eye contact, smile, confidence!
 
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Hey doc! Wanna go out for a drink? Not your student anymore, but would love to take you out sometime.


Alcohol equals sex
Food equals sleep

Remember that.
 
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