"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Please quick advice! Never had this situation...

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I am taking a course and have a week- long professor. She is older than me but I'm really into her. We've been talking alot, tonight for about 20 minutes after class. She's probably 7 years older than me, no ring, amazing looks and we're getting along great.

So far the conversation has been all professional, but she's dropped a few comments on her personality to me, which I take as she's opening up. I'll probably never see her after this week. Any thoughts on if / how I should approach? Should I just drop her my contact details and leave it up to her to see if she contacts me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have another good conversation. Smile, and be nice but cool and confident.
Then, at the close of the "feel good conversation"... Tell her you enjoyed her views on "such-n-such". Hand her your phone and tell her to punch in her digits so you can give her a quick call in the future, if you need more info. (don't just ask for her number)

That way, she doesnt feel like she is compromising her ethics by giving a student her number.

Then.. call her in a couple of weeks inviting her for drinks & "such-n-such" conversation. Usually after work is a more acceptable time. Make it a place that she frequents, or better yet, a place near her home. When you meet up with her, be sure to look good, smell good, and be charming and CONFIDENT. Make her laugh. Then get her buzzed. Lots of kino!!! Dont overdrink yourself. Maybe if the opening is there, say you are hungry. Then if she is too, suggest bringing take-out to her place. Eye contact, smile, confidence!
 
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Hey doc! Wanna go out for a drink? Not your student anymore, but would love to take you out sometime.


Alcohol equals sex
Food equals sleep

Remember that.
 
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