"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Please provide exercises

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Hi All,

I want to build my confidence up with starting cold conversations with girls I see in public. Does anyone know of any exercises they can either list or provide a link to? Kind of like what is on offer with the bootcamps.

Thanks
Jason
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i don't know of any links or notting....

if your confidence is that low, one thing that helps is to start talking to paid staff, they are paid to be there, they have no choice, and it give you lots of practice talking to strangers.
 
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I find it really hard to know what to say. I know you're not supposed to think about what you're saying/going to say.

What would really help me is transcripts of real conversations that people have, not just the convo but also how they handled themselves, what they noticed (ie. reactions of girl, etc) and what they did/didn't do beforehand.

I think this would really help not just me but everyone who has similar problems. Being able to see and hear (some audio/video convo's would be good).

Thanks
J
 
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